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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

How do you know if a girl is playing hard to get? or if she just doesn't like you?

What's the difference? I'm thinking a girl playing hard to get acts like she doesn't like you... in such a case, what is she looking for from the guy that likes her? Does she want him to be more forward and honest about his feelings? or what. And when is it hard to get vs her just not liking you at all...

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Usually in hard to get, try looking for small details. Some girls are more open about it than others, but look for like a smirk, or a smile or eye contact. Any little clue. Also, when they leave you for their friends, you can pretend to ignore them, and they will often times look back if you are still there.

    When they just don't like you, they don't smile, have a bad attitude, say whatever/ i don't care and stuff. Also, notice if they leave you and don't look back and only talk to their friends and not even notice you. Especially if they were cold and mean to you and all of a sudden their attitude changes to happy and joyful with their freinds. There are small things between these two and sometimes they are more visible on some girls than on others. Also, if you know the girl ahead of time, and know her personality, then it should be easier to detect it also.

    Best of luck:)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    if she is playing hard to get then go forward and tell her your feelings, that is what she wants you to do if shes playing hard to get.....if a girl is playing hard to get she will probably act normal around you but do little things to see if you like her like drop her books in front of you in the hall and see if you help her pick them up....that kind of thing...if she doesnt like you she wont do any of that.....but if you catch her looking at you when you dont know and turns away really quick then she definatly likes you and isnt playing hard to get

  • 1 decade ago

    men! that´s an easy question.

    If you approach her direclty you´ll FAIL!

    you should arrive to hang or (at least) talk to one of her girl friends... they´ll try to block you...

    But this is what you want: to be noticed not by your own acts in front of her and her friends...but THROUGH her friends...

    You see what I mean? Try to ask one of her friends if she has said any comments about you and indirectly say something about the girl you like...

    that man...it´s guaranteed to arrive at her sweet ears faster than Fed-ex at the president´s house....

    Good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    either way try ignoring her and see what her reaction is, but why would you want someone who plays childish games. ??

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