can you help me ...i dont want an abortion hubby does?

Honestly, you dont need a reason other than "its wrong" It is your baby, your body and your decision. Your husband is fully aware how to take babies so he knows when you are having sex that there is a possiblity. Keep that angel growing inside of you.

Facts:

*The heartbeat begins between the 18th and 25th day.

*Foundation for the entire nervous system is laid down by the 20th day (meaning that since brain wave can be detected at 30 days they can feel the pain caused by an abortion)

*The brain and all body systems are present by eight weeks.

*All body systems are functioning by twelve weeks.

These are all medical facts that can be looked up and proven.

I work for a pro-life organization and have the opporatunity of reading all the latest research and facts about abortion. I have seen the abortion process and some pretty greusome photos of babies that have been aborted. There is not one type of abortion that is "humane" because if the child has a heartbeat and nervous system that means that they can feel the pain of being [excuse me for the graphic words] ripped apart limb from limb, or dried up and skin melting of saline injections. Sorry to be so graphic, it just gets me fired up to talk about it.

Here is a website that you can get some reading material off of, if you only want one or two pamphlets just call the organization.

http://newhope-ky.org/prolifeissues.htm

And another site with some facts about abortion.

http://www.abortionfacts.com/literature/literature...

Good luck and I will keep you and your baby in my prayers.

Wow. I was in this situation about 5 mths ago he said " the baby or me." already having 2 kids and no career and just him and the kids I decided to abort. I cryied alot and had to be drugged even more during cause I was so upset and nervous. 1 min I was still unsure and the next Everything was flying and i slured my words and don't remember anything.

I would say if you do want this child then say no to abortion. Guilty feelings are horrible. He'll come around or go but can you live with this? I did and I got over it but I did and do say to him " I will have another child whethere it's with him or not." if 51% of you says keep it then do so!

Helenes right and I've said that to my hubby. He just laughed. Go with your gut. Don't listen to us.

Tell him to stuff it, he made you that way now he has to live with it. Besides the only way you can get an abortion is if your doctor says so. If he doesn't see a reason for it and that it could endanger your life, this won't happen.

Ask your husband if he is willing to raise his other children without a mother [ if something where to happen to you during the illegal abortion. will he be able to explain to his present children that he was the one that want it done and he caused their mothers death] I don't think so...

Keep your baby and enjoy your kids. He has to grow up sometime so why not start now. Next time tell him to wear a condom or get that thing fixed for good.

it is your determination, not your husbands. try to be waiting to stay with your determination, too. Is it in the main suitable pastime of your different babies to verify directly to not convey yet another toddler into the family contributors? Will it kill you interior to abort? If I have been on your subject, i might the two abort or supply the toddler up for adoption. i'm against abortion for myself, yet I even have self belief that everybody ought to have a call and not be condemned for that determination. it is a few thing which you mustn't evaluate gently. look. right this is a few issues to think of approximately. you have have been given 2 youngsters, certainly one of whom continues to be an toddler. what's your money subject like? are you able to handle to pay for yet another newborn? in step with probability it is quite helpful to contemplate an abortion. Then immediatly get on start administration or use condoms. tell your husband that he's a prick. he's the guy who did not use a condom. What the heck has HE carried out to avert being pregnant? not something. So, you do not pay attention to a DANG be conscious he has to declare. not one be conscious. you're making this determination. you are the guy who must be waiting to stay with it. it extremely is not homicide. it extremely is a call. while you're making the choice to abort, permit it extremely is a lesson to be greater careful sooner or later and forestall yet another curler coaster like this one. good success. pay attention on your coronary heart. evaluate the wellfare of your different 2 youngsters.

Your husband is being very selfish. He helped you create that life growing inside you. Yes, it will be hard on your body, but having an abortion will be heard on your heart and mind. You know that there is a life growing inside you.

Ask him if he would have aborted one of your other children, because they weren't convient to him.

Babies aren't always created when we want, but they are there. Love the baby and if your husband doesn't accept that then he needs to grow up and start acting like the man he is.

Mind you, I am NOT being sarcastic or snarky. My friend told her husband this after he told her to get an abortion, with thier second child. She said, "This is just one baby inside of me. You have the ammunition to make 64 million babies inside of your balls, so the reasonable option is to have this one last child, and get your ammunition cut off. It's stupid to do what's wrong over and over and pay for it over and over instead of just cutting off the cause of the problem right now. I don't want to hear another word until we get back from having your vasectomy. if you keep nagging or make threats, believe me, I'll fix you myself and the law will be on my side, seeing as i have an unborn child in me and you are threatening it."

No joke, this happened two years ago.

He never brought up abortion again.

And he's a good father now.

first tell him this could hurt you and hurt you to have more children in the future. also, this leaves so much emotional bagage then if you would of kept the baby. Plus it is just wrong. That is your child. His too! How could he just kill his baby like that and for you to even allow it to happen. I would get a divorsce before I killed my baby. I hope he comes around! also, adoption is you can raise the child is always a good idea. Like my aunt that can't have babies, or lots of people out there would love to have children! Good luck and wish you the best!

Well my bf has 2 and one is ours together. I recently found out I am also pregnant (about 6 weeks now), and my bf wants me to get an abortion too. We never really talked about it until last night when he asked me when do I have an ob/gyn appt, and I said in Sept. He asked how much would it be to get an abortion then, and that's when I said I'm not. Point Blank. He's afraid of our financial situation, and I know it will get hard, but YOU are the only one who will ultimately have to live with it. Men don't know how hard it is to go thru with it, and if he didn't want another child, he should have been doing everything in his power to prevent it. Now he wants to get it out of sight, out of mind. I think that, unless you think that you will be okay with an abortion for THE REST OF YOUR LIFE, then don't get it. I couldn't even think about getting it, much less going thru with it and living with it.

with all due respect to you, no one NEEDS "facts" on why to NOT get an abortion. the simple fact of the matter is that it is your body, and Y'ALLS baby. no offense but he sounds like a real *** and if he didnt want you getting pregnant, maybe he should've tried wearing a condom. if he was man enough to "stick it in" he should be man enough to raise it.