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everyone puts me down!?

Hi guyz. earlier i had a question saying how to loose weight. now i have another problem. I dont feel good about my self. I think i am the fatest and ugliest person in the whole wide world. The other day i was at FoodBasic's doing grocery. and the cashier was being rude to me for no reason. and i couldn't answer her back. every where i go i think poeople are just laughing at me and making fun of me. I have no self confidence. I can't even get a job. caz i have no previous experience. isn't it funny? living in a country like canada i have am saying all this? i've grown up here but i dont know. i think i have lack of confidence. what should i do? is there any social services activites i can take? i want to recontinue my education but when it times to start i dont want to do it. what should i do????????

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  • 1 decade ago
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    tell all your haters to f*ck off and kick rocks; you need to have better confidence in yourself no matter wht people say. they only put you down and treat you this way because you allow them to. if you start sticking up and feeling better about yourself, you'll feel much better ,huge, big or small

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    im sorry, hon. i dont know..be around people that actually make you feel good. over time it might work. and maybe get a little makeover? that could boost it. join a gym, with a friend whose really intense with it all. she could help you. now, she wouldnt want to take you everytime if shes very into it, youll probably slow her down in the beginnning. or you could join a gym like curves, meet your new BFF, (hah) and give each other confidence. and then go out for that new job.

    :/. good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well,just about any problem can be fixed!If your fat,go on a diet and exercize and drink lotz of water,do it as if you life depended on it.if you hae bad acne,go to your dermentoligist.If you are so fat that you cant see your neck,then still lose weight.Just about every problem can be solved,you just gotta live up to it,and do sumthing aboutit,dont worry.and hang around people whos gonna help you build up your self esteem,not help you knock it down!Every body has something special about them.And who knows,one day maybe you will get famous,and eevryone will be sorry.You gotta think positive!Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    People will treat you exactly the way you think and feel about yourself-they sense that you have little self worth and are all too happy to validate that feeling! It is not how you look! It is how you carry yourself, and moreover, what you will or will not tolerate from people!

  • 1 decade ago

    You need to get some counseling. It is important to build up your self-esteem.

  • 1 decade ago

    dont worry about it. God loves you and thats all that matters.

    u r who u r. nobody can change that unless u let them, then its a disgrace.

  • 1 decade ago

    remember love yourself first then people will love you.

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