He wont work either.?

Hun, never feel you will you have to stay because of living arrangements, or feel that you wont find better, because I guarantee you you will :)..YOU shouldnt have to put up with everything and do everything on your own. A relationship is 50/50 not you do everything and him just stay home or party. You're a strong person, and you deserve to be loved and treasured and valued as the person you are. If you stoop to his level and let him run over you, he will never change. And if you breakup with him again, he will change for a little bit until he feels you're convinced of his sudden change, but once he feels he has, I know for a fact he will be back to his old ways again...

I know you love him and feel he's your one and only, and Im not saying he isnt, but if hes treated you like this, he doesnt see you as his true love or one and only, but as someone who will always pick up his slack. What if he never gets a job or helps with the house chores, whats gonna happen is that you will have to do it because he knows you will. I think you could find better, but I cant tell you what to do or tell you to leave him, only you can say what will happen because its your decision and yours only, I can only try to help you through this.

I really hope he can change, for your sake and his, and for the sake of ya'lls future marriage.. Talk to him about how you feel, but without yelling, or insults, or snapping at him, but in a calm and serious tone. Let him see what his behavior is doing to you, and its not fair you do everything and he just stay home. Let him know you wont be there forever and one day you might get fed up and leave and there wont be any turning back.

Good luck hun :)

How old is your boyfriend? He has let you at 17 become the mature adult and take on all the responsibilities. Who the he-- does he think he is. You deserve so much better than to be yelled at by a abusively lazy no good jacka--. You are right you are to smart to be treated that way or accept that crap. If your parents are still around ask if you can move home long enough to finish school. Maybe check into getting a roommate. Please don't waste your life trying to make some guy grow up. TRUST ME IT WILL NOT WORK he will act right long enough to get you to stay and back into the routine that he is comfortable in, everything will go back to the way things are now. You have some tough decisions to make.

Oh He!!!!! NO. What is wrong with you? Cmon you can do better than that. He has nothing to offer you but _____ and I'm sure that isn't even worth the stay. Shouldn't it be that the man is working. What's up with you taking care of his lazy ***. Shoot he got it good but here lies the problem. He is a loser and you will do everything for him like you're his mama so in turn he is taking you for granted and he will end up leaving you as soon as someone else that looks descent is willing to do the same. A man that can lay around playing video games all day instead of taking care of business ain't no man. Stop playing house with his dumb a__!!!

I know you love him, but its time to stop asking. Tell him to get off his butt and get a job and start helping out or its over. If he really loves loves you he will change or at least make alot more effort. You deserve so much better, and there is someone out there who you will love and will love you back and give as much into the relationship as you are willing to give. You sound like an amazing girl, dont settle for a bum!

well if u cant do any better i would hate to see if u ever did better. u must hav low self esteem sorry to say that. but u have to, so if he left tomorrow u would what still pay the bills,cook,go to school,and work? so whats the problem ur to young for that. and note that he will never leave until he finds another one like u cuz he has it to good and he knows it. but i hav a feeling ur gonna hav to bump ur head a few times until u get it.

Your afraid that you will never be able to do better?I don't think there is any way that you can do any worse.This guy is a total zero.Believe me where ever you go you will be much better off. Leave now before it is too late.

The time you spend with Mr Wrong is time you COULD be spending with Mr RIGHT! You are young, but better to be faced with this now at 17 then at 27 with 3 kids. You CAN make it, you CAN do better!!!

you are quite young fro such responsibilities on your own.

get out and get away from him.. he has shown you what the rest of your life will be like if you don't. there are many, many men out there who would treat you right. stay with a friend or family member. this guy is not going to change as long as he has you to take care of his every need.