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A girl I like is going out with my best friend?

I've liked her since kindergarten and I never told her. My friend's only known her since last year and he's already told her that he likes her and they're going out. Should I tell her I like her?

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Since Kindergarten.....What the heck were u waiting for...

  • 1 decade ago

    you gotta ask yourself a few questions:

    1. How good is this friend of yours--and does he know you like her?

    2. Is this chick actually worth it--have you spent enough time with her to determine that she's a reasonable human being?

    3. How willing are you to step in between these two and risk it?

    If you really like your friend, but you still like the girl, then my best answer is to wait until they break up and move on, then you can tell her, that way they can get over eachother and be comfortable with the idea that they will see other people, maybe even you. Before you tell the girl, tell your friend, see how he reacts. See if he has any pointers or advice--maybe she's actually a she-devil!

    anyways, best of luck!

  • What are you nervous,since kindergarten!!!!!!! Well i bet if you told her that you had a crush on her since kindergarten then she would probably be wondering what was you waiting for. Go ahead and tell her you like her alot. And don't be nervous about it you known her since kindergarten!!!!!!

    But you do need to wait until they break-up!!

  • Jordan
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    This is coming from a girl's point of view...

    Your only chance with this girl is if you tell her you like her. (That worked for your friend, right?)

    However, since this girl has a boyfriend, telling her that you like her may confuse her as to who SHE likes. My opinion is that you'll have the best chance with this girl if you wait until after she and your friend have broken up. Also, be warned your friend may have hard feelings toward you if you go out with a girl that he dated.

    Hope that helps!

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  • 1 decade ago

    You've had a chance for quite some time to tell her how you feel about her. You lost your chance the second that she started dating your friend. It's not in your hands anymore. You should never try to reveal your feelings for someone that is dating another person. The only reason that you want to tell her now is because you are jealous that your friend is dating her. Deal with your jealousy.

  • 1 decade ago

    Not unless they break up. You had your chance (since kindergarten). He took his chance and look what happened: they're going out!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    THE SAME THING HAPPEND TO ME!!!!! THE GIRL I LIKED WAS DATEING MY BEST FRIEND. but by time they were going out she allready knew i liked her but if u tell her you like her ur best friend well get mad ( most likely) so wait intel they break up

    Source(s): the same thign happend to me
  • Te
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Wait till they break up first. You missed your chance. Now you gotta wait in line.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you definitely should break them up, because ur best doesnt like as much as u do, and thats what its all about, but u gotta play ur cards right...u know?

  • 1 decade ago

    No don't tell her you had plenty of opportunity. Next time don't wait so long.

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