OMG..I think mY BF Changed his Voicemail?

You need to look at yourself in the mirror of your mind. And then step in a mirror take your time on doing this, then ask yourself that question. The more you want to know and he obviously is not going to tell you if he's cheating, you need to be there for you. Keeping this tirade of not trusting is only killing you softly, he could care less. Step back re-evaluate you, for every argument the two of you have had. This is how you will be a better you for you. NO Man or one person should make you feel like you don't trust them and can't trust them if you are not with them. Love has NO FEAR!!! Period that's it.... Your love is out of FEAR, that's not going to get you anywhere... Pray for guidance and that your eyes be opened to unbelief.... Being real with yourself is the best thing you can do for yourself... So why cheat what you need for you, to only still end up "loving" someone "you can't trust".

I don't like to be mean, and I'm the first person to say don't answer a question if you can't be helpful - but in this case I think I am being helpful and not mean when I say - You are pathetic. Seriously, someone needed to tell you that obviously. Are you really that insecure, or are you some fatal attraction stalker?

Get a grip! Behaving this way is completely ridiculous and what you really need to worry about is if you'll ever find a guy that can trust you!

Why would you want to be with someone you don't trust. I would never want to be in a situation where I had to pry into my love ones private affairs. So much time and energy is put into finding if their cheating, when do you have time to enjoy the relationship? When are you at peace? Only when they are with you, that's crazy. How you begin your relationship is how you will end it. And if you have trust issues. You are not ready for a relationship, you need to first heal from you past insecurities and hurts. If you are to insecure to be by yourself, until you find yourself. Stay in your miserable relationship, because snooping and sneaking around is a life of misery - without trust you have nothing, And you're right if you don't trust your mate. you don't really love them, loves trusts always - there's peace when you really love someone. Infatuation is possessive and obsessive- controlling and insecure - Which one of these best describes your relationship?

well calm down first. where theirs a will theirs a way. freaking out isn't going to get you anywhere it will just pass the time that's all. so find another way. calm down because getting upset and worried isn't going to help anyone. figure out his voice mail password. or something. but if you can't trust him why are you with him. I'm not criticizing I'm just saying relationships are built on trust and apparently you don't have much of that. so i would suggest evaluating the situation at hand. find another way to entertain yourself spy on him if you like. but i would suggest ending the relationship with him. if you love him or not don't you think if you could honestly love him you would trust him? sounds more like jealousy and infatuation rather than love do what you want just know when you play with fire your bound to get burned.

I am married to a man whom I don't trust. And alot of times it leads to heartach. If you aren't going to leave when you find the dirt on him. Don't go looking it only causes you heartache. If you aren't going anywhere there is no need in knowing. I love my husband very much and know for a fact that he loves me. But being faithful isn't his strong point. I actually don't think that it's sexual with him, it's more of a friendship thing. No I am not naive.

Psycho.... if you dont trust the guy there is no reason to continue a relationship. And he must be doing something wrong if he changed it out of nowhere. I feel bad for you... everything about this is wrong. Life can be so much better.

If you are freaking out about a passcode then you need to get out quick. Without trust you don't have anything.

Mind your own business. IF you are checking his voice mail because you don't trust him, than you need to talk to him about trust issues. If you can't trust him than leave him, and if you don't want to leave him, than you must be ok with him cheating. It is such a violation of privacy to do that, you should be more respectful of your bf and his life, and if you are too crazy and cant control your possessiveness, seek counseling

I trust my boyfriend. If I need to use his computer, I ask him to type it in. He did a smart thing by changing it. If you can't trust him, you shouldn't be in a relationship. Leave the guy so he can find a person who will trust him.

If you can't trust them, then you don't deserve them. And the only way a relationship can work is if that you both have trust. Don't be so worried, nothing will happen.