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i don't like my best friend's boyfriend? what should i do?
the thing is, we're now in high school and my best friend's a rich, pretty, nice, popular and smart kind of girl and well, her new boyfriend is handsome, smart, rich and popular, too, but definitely NOT nice. well, he is only nice to my best friend and her close friends and not to anybody else. he's rude impolite and very cheesy. plus, word is, he's a player and i'm very concerned for my friend. they seem to get along great and he seems to love her very much. but, it's like being with my best friend is not the same anymore. don't take this the wrong way because she had a lot of past boyfriends and i never had a problem with each one except this one.
10 Answers
- bluebirdLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
I don't think you can do anything. If you say anything you could push her away from you. The best thing to do is be there for her just in case this doesn't work out. She will need a shoulder in case that happens. You can pick your friends, but you can't help who you fall in love with. Good Luck.
- 1 decade ago
They say that love is blind. When people are in a relationship the truth is not always obvious to them or they are not willing to accept something that they dont want to hear. I believe a big indicator for a genuine person is how they treat people in general. If he is not nice to other people then its possible that its a facade. I would tell her. but most of all, just be a friend to her. If they are i love then it may be a bit difficult. good luck with it all
- Anonymous1 decade ago
By nature there is no perfect human being,
Either you cannot dislike someone just by something wrong he/she does,even before counseling him of what he/she is doing,and its corrective measures.
Here you have a part to play,if you really love your friend.
Ask your friend in a tricky way if one day she find out that her boyfriend is a player,with such bad habit you mentioned.For sure you'll know where she is standing,and from that point of view you'll be able either to advise something about her boyfriend,the way he is behaving,and possible suggestions of how you think he must behave.
- ?Lv 41 decade ago
Well you cant make them break up if he really is a "player" then let her find out on her own friendship wise talk to her about it tell her how you feel if she chooses not to listien then you know shes really not a good friend
Source(s): i had a friend since 6th grade ( i am now a senior ) Freshmen year of highschool my friend met this guy i hated his guts! he was trashy and no good she chose him over him 1 year later she realized her mistake and dumped him she never talked to me again though but that proved to me how much she really cared about our friendship i just looked at the brighter side and just moved on and met other people who became great friends with me ( just be careful usually when people start to date expecially girls they tend to forget about their friends so be careful with backstabbing so try to get closer with other ppl incase ) - How do you think about the answers? You can sign in to vote the answer.
- 1 decade ago
it may be hard but just talk to her sometime and be like "so..about the bf....hes kinda rude, dont you think?" just tell her that hes not nice to anyone but her and her clique or whatever...just at least make sure shes aware...but its up to her whether she wants a boyfriend, or a good relationship with a boy thats nice to her friends and everything...good luck!! <333
- foosieboy1953Lv 51 decade ago
well you have to mind your own business. you said yourself... he is nice to her... and her close friends... he seems to love her very much..and they get along great. sounds like the problem is you. and are u included in the close friends of hers..that he likes? if not why? ask yourself.. check yourself.
- svLv 71 decade ago
Care for your own boyfriend and leave her boyfriend's problem to your best friend herself.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
if you don't like him just let your best friend know how you feel if your best friends she should understand