laws of attraction...? (non science wise...)?

Sure, that's just physical attraction. If their physical appearance doesn't change, why should that?

However, it's sometimes hard to separate physical attraction from their personality -- a great personality can make someone seem beautiful, and a bad personality can make even the best-looking person unappealing.

I've been attracted to a guy in the beginning and by the end of the relationship was repulsed by him. I think it's possible to change your mind, kind of like omg, what was I thinking, or what did I see in him? So I think you can lose the physical attraction for someone you may have once had in the beginning. However, I've also had relationships end where to this day I still think they are hot and lust after them! Not sure how clear the law is.

I really find it funny that the saying “it’s what’s on the inside the counts” has allot of gravity in the laws of attraction and continual pair bonding. I have had personal experience with a very beautiful girl who was just a dreadful person. And yeah I think she is beautiful, but the more I got to know her, the more un attracted I became to her. If I was given a chance to date her again, I would not. So many guys drool over her looks, but chances are if they dated her they would think her looks wouldn’t overshoot the fact that she has a crappy personality. And yeah I still think she is attractive, but really that’s the only thing she has going for her. Hope this helps.

-Ty

It's hard not to take into account why you broke up though, because how someone has treated you and your feelings of hurt or anger toward them, can definitely affect how you "see" them. Their actual physical apperance may not have changed at all from the day you met and were drawn to them, but after a break up you may look at them and see someone ugly and repulsive...but a lot of that is based on how you feel about how they treated you, not just their physical appearance. It's really tough to separate the two when emotion is involved.

There isn't any science to back it up. And it most certainly has NOTHING to do with quantum physics (although many of the so-called Law of Attraction gurus and teachers - who have no scientific background and know nothing about quantum mechanics claim it does). That doesn't mean it doesn't exist, nor does it mean it doesn't work. It works all the time.

no, because often times the initial attraction turns out to be fake, meaning people play the game to make them seem like the things you were attracted to, and then it disappears... hence the initial attraction is gone...

You might still find them to be attractive, but it will be through the lens of whatever they did to end the relationship.

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yes, when you're mad at you're new girlfriend. or maybe lonely,,,.or, maybe all the time. that doesn't mean they are right for you...remember why you guys broke up...

I vote yes.