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My Girl is pissed, Read below.?
So my girl of 3 months moved in ,I know I know. So she is a real selfish girl (like most) but she is a little more. I go to band practice 4 times a week and spend the weekends with her plus everynight I give her what she wants wink wink. So she says i am never home. She moved to cali from ohio and I know she is scared so I try to give her alot of attention when I am with her.
It seems no matter what she is never happy she wants what she wants and screw everyone else. She can be very sweet and thoughtful. She is also very affectionate. So should I just be really sweet to her and let her have her fits in hopes of her coming around? Or do I shut my self off and push her away?
9 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
well .. just try to do something really sweet like as soon as u get in the car to go to band practice pull out ur phone and call her and say baby i miss u .. u'll make her feel like u really care
- 1 decade ago
What is in her now is insecurity..giving in to much is not the right move..sometimes to understand a women is hard but if you do take a little time think what she actually needed..wanted your attention and love all the time...means she cared..only things doing not the right method..you have to talk to her openly..what u feel and what you want...to tell u 1 thing...women are from Venus and men are from Mars...so u would never understand cause they are from different planet..learnt to be more patient and understanding..compromise is important too..remember this women love u as much as you do,i believe..
- MJLv 61 decade ago
First talk with her and tell her what you are feeling.. perhaps no one has told her that she comes off as a very selfish person and immature....ask why she never appears to be happy? by the way not all women are selfish.... There are some great women out there just as there are Real MEN>>>>
- Anonymous1 decade ago
she moved in when youve only been with her for 3months...BIG MISTAKE DOOD. whats done is done now tho...she sounds imature 2 throw fits when she doesnt get her way...i would just tell her straight that this is not acceptable or she knows where the door is...if its like this already, then jeez you are i trouble m8... shes just guna get worse.. you need to nib it now before she gets way out of control and controlling. she will make your life hell then and she wont want you having freinds at all..be a man and tell her to get a grip or this aint guna work.x oh yeah...and you do realize she is going 2 throw in your face ( i moved here away from every1 for you) dont fall for that either...not like you forced her with her arm up her back...ive known girls like this...and they live to moan and milk the misery...not all girls are like this...just like not all you men are pigs...lol.. there are some mature none selfish girls around..she needs to get her own life and friends so she doesnt have to live in a world where life revolves around you.xx
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
just let her know exactly how you feel and give her some time to see if it gets better, if not you can either drop her or deal with it. its really up to you. you have a choice. it also depends on how deep your feelings are for her, but remember, if shes an adult you cant raise her anymore, shes already been raised, so you may not be able to change her. good luck
- 1 decade ago
I think just give it some time, she will prob come around. She is just going through a time right now, and coming from me ( a girl) we can get really emotional. Hope that helped.
- GeminiLv 41 decade ago
I would let her know how you feel before its to late.Maybe things will change??
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I dunno