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What to do? I'm worried about my best friend?

My best friend is going out with this guy, it's been already a year she's with him. In the beginning of the relationship they were always together and she was very happy with him but now she's not. Dec 14 he went to Morocco to visit his family for 2 months, every since he came back, he completely changed, he never calls her, every time they plan something together, he always finds a excuse not to be with her, she's always the one calling him to see how he's doing or calls him to see him. She sees him once a month, and every mondays he has days off and whenever she calls him to see him, he tells her to call back, and when she does, he's with his friends. 2 weeks ago my bf and I went to go see, my best friends bf at work (my bf and her bf are best friends too), I told him to call her and you know what he said? what do I say if it's her parents or her brothers that answers, her parents and brothers know already. And he still doesn't call her. I gave her my opinion..What else do I say?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    All you can do is give her your opinion, because it is ultimately her choice to do what she want. Since, you have already done that it up to your friend to make the choice. Just be there for her when its all over.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You need to make her see that this guy does not care about her. Maybe introduce her to a super nice, attractive guy and you guys all hang out together and hopefully she'll start liking this new guy or at least see that there's something better out there and she could and should be treated better. Also since your bf is best friends with this guy, you should make him tell her what this guy says about her, even though they're best friends, he is your boyfriend so he should tell her the truth that this guy doesn't care and she'll have to believe him.

  • Soda
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    I do not think there is really anything you can say. Just be there for your friend, cause it sounds like she will need you around. I hate to say this, but it sounds like this guy is cheating on your best friend.

  • 1 decade ago

    Let her deal with it - the guy is a jerk and it may take her some time to realize it.

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  • 1 decade ago

    ok clearly hes just an idiot tell ur bff 2 dump him!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Tell her DROP HIS A*S

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