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Should I read this?? What would you do?

My now fiance and I have been together for a total of now 5 years. During this time, like most relationships, we went through very difficult times. We were also very young and still learning. There was another girl that I was always told was a friend at the beginning of the relationship but she ended up being a big problem for us. Fortunately we have gotten over it but she's still a VERY sour subject and I feel in my heart at times that there is something I still dont know. Kinda like I was told what i wanted to hear kinda thing. anyways. When he was visiting his mom about years ago, he was chatting with this girl on AOL instant messenger ( a convo i was to know nothing about, as kinda like, Have you talked to her lately? and he would say no. So i was lied to in the past about him talking to her) anyways. He ended up leaving to go somewhere and his mom found that convo and knew a LITTLE about what was going on so she printed it out. She has told me about it 2 years ago and said......

Update:

That it would be best to read if we were not together in the future. It has now been 3 years and I have forgotten about it over time. We are currently going through a point in our lives where im unsure of things. Im at this moms right now and I thought about that conversation he had. I asked her if I could read it and I now have it folded up in front of me. Should I read it? What would you do? I feel like I need too as this might be something I was lied to before. His mom just said remember that you were both young. I said yeah but I still feel like she is thrown in my face at times. Anyways. Would you read it?

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  • Susan
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
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    Yeah, read it. It sounds like you need some closure. It will give you closure and reassurance. Just read it.

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