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For personal reasons I have not spoken to ANY of my family members since March 18, 2007. It has hurt me and i have become such a stronger person and have accomplished alot in my life since that i am really proud of. Everything that had happened to make my decision of not speaking to them was NOT my fault. I have not been offered ANY apology since then and suddenly nearly 8 months later I get a message in my email telling me that my sister that her and I NEVER got along, met some guy and got engaged and is planning a wedding over the last 8 months? That is already bizarre as it comes because of the attitude and personality of my sister but I honestly still want nothing to do with them. Regardless of her wedding or not. At this time in my life they mean nothing to me. I have not spoken ONE word to ANYone in my family and I choose to still keep it that way. i almost feel like I am being a total ***** but is it wrong of me to not put aside my own feelings to be a part of this?

I have been with my fiance for over 5 years. Recently HE had purchased a house and I just moved up last week. long story short I am sleeping on the couch downstairs and he says that he is seriously through and he wont tell me if he is already interested in someone else. I am so freaking upset and it seems like none of this is bothering him at all. I seriously have no where to go right now and see myself stuck here for at least the next month until I can get my stuff together and move out. how can I go by and just act like this isnt affecting me? I dont even want him to see me cry because I feel like he has no feelings and i feel dumb to cry. This is sooo hard. I dont have my family and my friends are miles and miles away.

I just started my period 2 days ago. I have always had cramps on my first day of my period and always either brownish or maroonish red blood. Starting last night I started getting these REALLY sharp pains. They are not even in my stomach but down below. I have ALWAYS worn tampons and dont quite see this as a problem right now but I am not going to rule it out. I noticed today that the blood is BRIGHT red. A color that I have NEVER seen in 10 years that I have had my period. The color and the pains are whats concerning me. I had sex the day before I started my period with my fiance of 5 years so I dont know if this is something thats causing it either. The pains arent in my stomach area where I normally cramp. Is this something i should be concerned about? I have to pee more than normal also.

On thursday my vet will be giving me the pill Drontal. I noticed that one of my cats had tape worms by the "rice" looking object on her butt fur. I have 3 cats total and have seen nothing on the other cats. I called my vet who has seen all my cats and although I KNOW what tape worms are, he suggested bringing her in for an exam anyways. Therefore thats why its gonna be Thursday. He had already mentioned that he would send her home with Drontal and also a pill for my other 2 cats. Question is, how long will this take to work? I hear about Diareah and loose stool and it concerns me because Saturday morning I am moving and my cats will be in the car all day. They will of course have their litter box but this is an 18 hour trip across 2 states. Should I wait until Sunday to administor the pills? I want them to be comfortable but also want this gotten rid of asap! They are on advantage so im still pondering how she got worms when they are all strictly indoor cats. any help is great!

I just recently asked a question regarding my female cat in heat. I called her current Vet, the one she has her appointment with, and he again said I should wait. I called 2 more reputable vets that I have either gone to before or my family and both I can’t get her in until next week. I went ahead and made the appointment since it is one week sooner than her last appointment, But as much as I hate how this sounds, Can I keep her in a kennel until this time? I have a quite large kennel for a dog that she sleeps in most of the time and feels comfortable in it. Since she is spraying at the moment, can I put her litter box and toys and such in there while I am at work or sleeping and such? It is a quite large kennel so she will have a bunch of room. I just don’t want her peeing all over the carpet and my clothes until I can get her in to get spayed?

Just a Note: I am a huge animal lover and ALL of my cats are strictly indoors and all get spayed or neutered.

I have a 2 year old male and a 2 year old female BOTH fixed. I have a 6 month old who already has her appointment scheduled to be spayed in less than 2 weeks. Unfortunately for me, she just started to come in heat. My other guys were adopted and were both fixed at 3 months but my vet said its safer for 6 months so she is scheduled. my male has NEVER sprayed and since my female 6 month year old has been in heat the past 2 days I found pee stains in 2 spots so far and I seperated her to a laundry room. How long will she spray for during her heat cycle? thanks!

My mother in law was divorced from her husband 19 years ago and is kinda a tom boy. She talks about how Godly she is and preaches to me and everything and then tells me the other day how she has her "toys" and everything. But then she talks about how she told her son when he was younger that its a sin and so on. Sometimes I just get tired of her acting like shes a christian and then she does other things that makes you want to be like WTF? anyways. So if you are NOT married, is it a sin to masturbate? She's preaching to me this morning about giving 10% to God and all this stuff and it sometimes gets annoying when they are PRETENDING to be a christian

My now fiance and I have been together for a total of now 5 years. During this time, like most relationships, we went through very difficult times. We were also very young and still learning. There was another girl that I was always told was a friend at the beginning of the relationship but she ended up being a big problem for us. Fortunately we have gotten over it but she's still a VERY sour subject and I feel in my heart at times that there is something I still dont know. Kinda like I was told what i wanted to hear kinda thing. anyways. When he was visiting his mom about years ago, he was chatting with this girl on AOL instant messenger ( a convo i was to know nothing about, as kinda like, Have you talked to her lately? and he would say no. So i was lied to in the past about him talking to her) anyways. He ended up leaving to go somewhere and his mom found that convo and knew a LITTLE about what was going on so she printed it out. She has told me about it 2 years ago and said......

I am going to an interview today for an administrative assistant position at a CPA firm. It was advertised as administrative assistant and almost seems kind of receptionistist like. But I wanted to know about what they might pay. It is located in Southern California and since i just moved back here im not sure what it is here. I was making 16/hour in texas. I want to at LEAST match that. Any admin's in Southern california know what the pay should be?

I am making a trip from Houston to Fountain valley, CA. It is approximently 1534 miles according to mapquest.

I have a jeep liberty which i would say I will get about 20 miles per gallon. Might even be better since I will go like 55 to save more.

Lets say that gas will be $2.80 cents per gallon.

Can someone tell me what i would be spending in gas alone?

My laptop LCD screen busted last night and i need to replace it. How much does it cost to fix something like this? I tried ebay but maybe im not searching correctly or i cant do it.

Its a Compaq presario C300

or the service tag is c303nr

Thanks!

What are the chances that they would fire me on the spot? Thats just something that i always worry about. I THINK that i am sure that they wont since i do alot of work at the time. I just trained our new receptionist so i will make it clear that i will train the new person before i leave. i just want to guarantee i can be there for the next 2 weeks until im ready to go. What are the chances they will let me go early or on the spot? I know taht you arent familiar with the company but has anyone ever been let go early after putting in a 2 weeks?

The lady i work with doesnt drive, we have no company car. I dont mind running quick errands. But i DO mind when my car is being used as the main source of transportation. I bought a car with 7000 miles and after one month i have 9500. I dont know what to say to her. We basically use the car to go to meetings and such but some are quite a ways away and im racking up over 100 miles a day. What can i say? I just want to lie and say something about my insurance or something. like, oh because of lower rates i chose an insurance company that wont allow me to go over blah blah blah miles a year. which i KNOW there are some like that. Can they fire me or somethng? I didnt sign up for transportation when i took this job.

I am an administrative assistant/ sales representatives for a company that i have been with for the past couple months. I have been getting paid 15 per hour and NO taxes taken out which is WHY i want out. There is another company that our company has done business with that seen how i work and offered me a job for his company. He said he can pay 16 per hour first 90 days and then go to 18 per hour. I will be getting a raise at this job to 18 per hour in the next few weeks and that will be my final raise. I just counter offered an amount of him paying me 17 per hour and 19 after my review. Would you ask for this? He will be taken out taxes also which is why i want to move anyways,

I have a suit that i am wearing to my interview in the morning. its one of my favorites but i realized last time that i was wearing it, there was a rip down one of the seams. I am going to buy a needle and thread tonite and my mom and dad showed me years ago but i live in a different state now. Lol. I cant find an alteration place or any where that will take them and fix em up in such short notice. I know how to sew from one side to the other but do i just tie a knot at the end? I just want a temp fix!

I have had an offer for another job and am debating taking it. The problem is, I have become comfortable with the amount that I am currently receiving, however, they are not currently taking out taxes until we hire a CPA and then my paycheck will definently drop since taxes would be out. I would drop about 100 bucks a check. Anyways....I had another offer for a job.. The thing is. I am getting 15 per hour right now no taxes out. and am going to have a raise GOD knows when this is why i want to change jobs, which will go to 18 per hour. This other company KNOWS this since our companies have worked together in the past. They offered me basically $33,400 per year which is 16 per hour the first 90 days and then $37,400 after 90 days which comes to 18 per hour.

I want to come back and ask for 17.50 per hour which is $36,400 first 90 days and 19.50 after which is $40,560

Would you ask for this? Once he takes taxes out i just basically want to break even.

I want to find out how much i should calculate to be taken out each check

I am single, I have a roommate. not sure who files head of household. and which saves money, I want the least bit of taxes taken out of my check since i dont care really what i get back at the end of the year anyways. Just dont want to pay anything out. What is it for texas? 15- 20% ?

I figured out what I would make for 16 an hour. I want to ask them for a different pay. I want them to pay me 17.50 an hour and then after my review... 19.00 or 19.50 (please try both)

Can i please get the total per year of that. is it 36400.... and then 39520 for 19 per hour and 40560 for 19.50 an hour?

Thanks!

Ok. I need some verification on the answers that I am receiving. maybe im not doing it correctly i dunno.

A job wants to offer me 33400 annually and after 60 days - 37400

I will be salary based. I know it works out to 16 per hour and then 18 per hour which I am going to renogotiate on that. anyways.

Tell me what I am going to get a month. or every 2 weeks. I will deduct taxes from there. what is it? like 15% or something that they take or 20%?

I just want to work it out against what I am getting paid now.

Thanks!

I was out driving tonite and the air conditioner just stopped blowing cold. My car is still under warranty but the only problem is their service hours are monday through friday and hours that I am already at work. It happened to soon to make other arrangements. I will drop the car off to Jeep on Monday but in the meantime can i buy a recharge kit and add more freon or r134? (i think thats the numbers) I have someone that will do it for me, he is a mechanic who is a neighbor of mine, but he just told me to get the stuff. I am assuming and as is he that there is a leak since the car is not even a year old yet. Is this something that will work in the meantime?