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hey i need help!! PLEASE help if you can!?

My boyfriend of 4 years and I have always been close except until we seperated for 2 months early this year. We are back together and things are better than ever before. Now he wants me to meet his two best friends that he became so close to during our seperation. He is still beesstt friends with them now but he wants me to like them too. We've never saw eye to eye on each others friends. But I want his friends to like me and they are actually both 6 years older than me and my boyfriend. I want to make a woooonderful and dynamic first impression on them. How can I do it??

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  • 1 decade ago
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    well, i think the best part is that you want to try... that says a lot about you already. like you, i don't exactly see eye to eye with some of my boyfriend's choices of friends either. usually if i don't like someone i really don't care what they think about me, but for the sake of my relationship with my boyfriend i actually want his friends and me to like eachother or at least get along with one another. the best way i have found is to be treat them as if they were my own friend and show them who i really am. i always had thought that my boyfriend's friends had it out for me an that they wanted him to get rid of me because they thought he was "being whipped"... but when i opened up and showed them that i am my own person, not just my boyfriend's girlfriend and started treating them like they were my friends and not just my boyfriend's friends things changed. a joke was actually made the other day (my boyfriend loves to hunt) that if my boyfriend was single he would enjoy hunting more often... and his friend (right infront of me) said "no, she makes him too happy... he would be miserable going out hunting and not having her to come back to, she's a great girl and he's lucky to have her... not many girls will rub a guys nasty, sweaty feet after he comes home from a weekend hunting trip with the boys, he needs to get on it and start planning a wedding already (we've been together for 4 years also)"! i was so touched, i almost started crying! i'm so glad that i got to know his friend, actually i guess i should call him "our" friend... hope you can do the same!

  • 1 decade ago

    Hmmm, not sure how someone can make two BEST friends in two short months, but on to your question.

    Don't dress sleazy. For some reason, many women feel dressing like a whore impresses men, not!

    Find out what they are interested in ahead of time, from your boy friend, read up on these topics so that you can have a conversation with them. Don't worry so much about impressing them, they should be thinking about how to impress you.

    Keep things light, have fun and stop worrying.

  • 1 decade ago

    The best thing you can do is just be yourself. Don't ever change who you are to make others like you. Be honest and show your true self.

  • 1 decade ago

    if you dont ever want to have to meet his friends again, hit on one of his "best friends" and that'll teach him. otherwise, just be yourself...if they dont like you, so be it...its not like you're dating them. my girl and i have separate friends and most of the time, we cant stand each other's friends. the only thing that matters and keeps us together is the fact that we like each other...not how much we like each other's friends.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Just be yourself if they dont like you they are probably not worth knowing, You shouldn't have to act in front of anyone

  • 1 decade ago

    When you meet them, don't speak something bad that worths to ruin their day

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    just be yourself...dont be som1 your not...as they will realise you are not that person and wont like you for that.

    you are you...if they dont like you for that..then thats there problem not yours huni..x

  • 1 decade ago

    just act yourself, don't try to be someone you are not! you don't have to change for any one.

  • be yourself if u don't like them don't act like u do.

  • 1 decade ago

    mmmmmmmm sounds like this is gonna be trouble!

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