if every pain makes u stronger, do u wonder what the he|| Gods meaning u to face if u need to b this strong?

u have so much pain inside u...i can feel it in me *looks away* i want all of ur pain, every ounce of it...cuz u dont deserve any of it...

I think every horrible thing that ever happens to a person shapes them to be the person they are everyday...it helps you deal with difficult situations in the future, it helps you understand how to treat others and how to not treat others, and it helps you become a "better" human being when the energy is channeled in the right direction. If it weren't for the things I went through as a child, I feel I would be more naive to the ways of the world now, I would not understand that there are certain things you cannot do to children (and partners) because it may scar them forever, and I try to make myself a better parent than what was offered to me as a result. Even as an 8 year old I often felt I couldn't live the way I was living, but I got through it, I'm tough (although I had to learn how not to be "too tough" as an adult) and I'm not happy I endured what I did, but I'm satisfied that at least I walked away from it with wisdom and rationalization of its affect on me...at least I feel I did.

It means that pain makes you more compassionate..I understand you don't want to feel pain but then could you be a human without feeling what it is to suffer. You would never be able to be more appreciative of the good that comes with pain. You are not giving much information as to what you are feeling or what has lead you to ask this question.

All the time. Or why some people have to fight their whole life just to make a dime and some people are born with silver spoons in their mouth. What pain do they have, where to spend their money today.

That's like saying

"God never gives you more than you can handle".

Bull...why do people commit suicide then? Obviously because they had too much to handle. You'll never know the answer to pain making you stronger because if you look hard enough there is always someone in more "pain" than yourself.

its like the old saying what doesn't kill you makes you stronger you don't necessarily have to be going trough pain but what you do learn is the mistakes you made or what you can improve on God i think he wants us to become as best as we can and in order to do so we have to suffer

All the time. I'm going through that right now. I wonder all the time why can't things ever go right for me, just once.

He has His reasons. I believe He has given me these type of things to make me stronger, yes. I also believe that the things I am handling in my life that don't seem fair to me, are given to me because I seem to be handling them and they need to be handled by someone. I have to believe in these sort of things!!!!!!!!!!

Life's tough so you have to be tougher but it's also meant to help you appreciate what you have.Mainly the ppl that love & care for you.

Life gets more burdensome and stressful as you age. You need to be strengthened as you go along.