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Shaken Baby Syndrome?

I brought my 51/2 month old baby to a B-day party today. One of my "friends" picked up my son and started to roughly play with him. She twisted him side to side roughly and repeatedly. Then she started shaking him up and down, bouncing his feet off the sofa. She held nothing back...she was at it full force, doing it as fast as she could. I stopped her immediately. It lasted less than 10 seconds. Then she walked off saying that my husband and I were "too careful" with our son. Our son is sleeping peacefully at home now. There appears to be nothing wrong. Should I take him to the ER. Will he get Shaken Baby Syndrome? What are the signs I should look for?

Update:

For the one that said I "exaggerated," my baby was literally treated like a cocktail shaker. There is no exaggeration. It appeared to be done out of malice and wasn't your normal play. My son went to bed a bit earlier than usual and didn't wake up for his feed. I woke him just now and fed him. His sucking reflexes seem to be fine and so is his appetite.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    1. When in doubt, go to the doctor.

    2. Kick your "friends" @$s

  • 1 decade ago

    I would not be so concerned...yes, the 'friend" should have not done that, as this makes you uncomfortable as a parent, but shaken baby syndrome is much more severe and it takes more than bouncing a child up and down or twisting him back and forth to cause it.

    Shaken baby syndrome is caused by violent shaking, causing the child's head to snap backwards and forwards repeatedly, causing injury to the brain and to the neck.

    The worse that may have happened is your son would have gotten a bit of an upset tummy from the motion and spit up, but I think you don't have anything to be concerned about right now.

    Keep on being a good mom!! It's good to see a parent that puts their child's health and well being as their number one priority!

  • 1 decade ago

    People are rude! Its your baby! The baby relies on you to protect it and you did an excellent job in doing so! I've had a couple people be rough with my son when he was a baby and I did the exact same thing and I didn't care what they thought. May be the people that say you exaggerate don't or ever had a baby. Also why would someone bounce a 5 month old feet off the sofa..that is idiotic to me!

  • 5 years ago

    Shaken baby syndrome (SBS) is a form of child abuse that occurs when an abuser violently shakes an infant or small child, creating a whiplash-type motion that causes acceleration-deceleration injuries. In other words, bouncing the baby while burping her is not enough force to cause SBS. You're fine. I mean who doesn't bounce their baby a little when it's time for burping. Tell Grandma, that everything is ok and to relax a little. You're not doing anything to hurt your little girl.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I think you may be exaggerating things just a little. Im not criticizing you and I think you did the right thing by taking control of the situation. You really cant be 'too careful' with your babies (even older kids for that matter).

    If you really are concerned, the symptoms to look out for are lethargy, a dazed appearance and possible vomiting. The symptoms should show up right away if there is a problem.

    Did your son go to sleep shortly after this incident or was it his normal bed time? If it was not his normal bed time and there is anything irregular about his sleeping, dont hesitate to go to ER.

  • 1 decade ago

    It is very very rare to get SBS (shaken baby syndrome) by bouncing baby on the sofa although it should be avoided.

    Symptoms:

    Baby unconscious or having seizures.

    Less Severe cases:

    irritability

    vomiting

    poor sucking or swallowing

    baby not smiling or vocalising

    altered consciousness

    baby eating less than normal diet

  • 1 decade ago

    I'm a first time mom and very protective....I think all moms and dads are, and I would call my dr just to be on the safe side. You did the right thing by stepping in, and as the mom you know best...if you are having any doubt or concern, you call the dr. That's what they are there for, and it's always better to be on the safe side and let them be aware. At the very least it will help you to feel better about the situation. Your child is most likely just fine but you'll feel better calling.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    "She held nothing back...she was at full force".

    That is very concerning, even if the episode "lasted less than 10 seconds". Have you noticed any changes in your sons behavior since this happened, like does he seem more sleepy, irritable, vomiting? Are his eyes red?

    I would suggest you take him to the ER to get checked!

    When you get back THEN you can beat the S**T out of your "friend". Oh yeah, and send her the bill.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    1st - keep the dumb a*ss friend away from your child. Shaken baby syndrome is similar to a concussion in adults (but does worse damage) where the brain bounces around. Keep track of him for the next day or two but chances are everything is fine. Relax.

  • 1 decade ago

    Wow what a freak. I would've smacked the s.hit out of her and I'm not a violent person. I think he should be okay thought since you took him back right away but then again we did not see what you are describing to actually know. Maybe you should call a nurse at the hospital to describe what happened and see what she has to say about it.

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