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Just a friend question?

Well, I've just noticed at the beginning of high school, I was part of this huuge group of kids. Now, we seem to have broken up into mini-groups. The people who I was really close to before, I hardly talk to them now. I was just wondering if this is normal, that's all =)

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    that's a normal process. you've got to find a group of persons that's right for you, that suits you.

  • 1 decade ago

    Very normal, and the older you get, the groups keep splitting. Its part of finding what you have in common as you get to know yourself. You may end up with just one friend from high school. I only really talk to my sister from school, I moved and we all grew apart.

  • 1 decade ago

    Hey time changes and so do the people you encounter, yes it's all too normal.

    If it really is eating at you though, then go up and ask them if they want to hang out on the weekend and go see a movie or grab lunch.

    Sometimes though, you go your separate ways for a reason...so if that's the case here, then you will just have to learn to accept it and carry on with your life.

    Friends come and go to teach you lessons in life......

    .Try getting together with them sometime.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    thats totally normal. this happened to me too. all you have to do when that happens just never completly forget the friend who moved out of group always talk to them sometimes or they might not talk to u again, so stay in touch, and also try to make some new friends so that ur group can get bigger again.

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  • Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    I really know how you feel just like me last year me and my friends are really close but now it seems like the only thing that we do is saying hi. Yes i miss those days but i know i will have to face the facts.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    yeah it is normal...i know that its not fun and you probably want to stay with the people that your close to but the thing is that sometimes you make new friends that can be even closer than the old ones...and thats just how life is. I hope i helped!

  • 1 decade ago

    well yes thats very usual

    ill tell u ine more thing all the previous guys didnt say

    when u go to univserity or college, u will know NO ONE there, so try to live with it

    i finished my 5 years college just before 3 months,

    Today i talk only to one of my school friends (because he is my neighbor)

    and only to one friend of university!!!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    yes, you all have grown apart. You have changed in small ways that you have just moved on. No big deal just enjoy the friends you have now and enjoy high school.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes it's normal. That happened to me to when I was in high school. It's nothing to worry about!!

  • Of all my friends from high school, there's only one I still talk to. It's just part of growing up. Don't worry about it.

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