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Do you notice when other guys hit on a girl you are interested in?
There is this guy I have been very recently seeing, not exclusive though. Well this past weekend he had commented after his roommate/friend asked me to come upstairs (I was down in this guys room) and I said no I'm going to stay down here". Then the guy said "He has been hitting on you all night I think". I was boggled by this and said I don't feel I was leading him on, do you? He said "I don't know I don't notice things like that" But yet he noticed enough to bring it to my attention?
If you aren't into a girl would you even notice if another guy is hitting on a girl? See I know for me, I only notice if a girl is hitting on a guy I like, IF I like him. If he is just a friend, I just don't pay much close attention.
What do you think guys? Is this a good sign if a guy notices other guys noticing you?
Well we are definately more than friends, just not sure where it will go yet at this point. We layed together and watched a movie after that.
4 Answers
- Jr. is angryLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
well, i think this would be hard for anyone to answer without knowing the rest of the story, like i do.
but, "Douglas G" is right. so if he doesnt know you as well as i do, then extra credit to him for figuring this out, without all the facts.
yes, we notice whether we like the girl or not.
it only bothers us if we like the girl.
in your case, he likes you, he was really afraid you were going to go upstairs, like every other girl he has dated, and he might have even staged it. to test you.
it is a little unusual for a roomie to make a move when the guy is there, even for guys.
and yes, you did the right thing.
but, BUT, it is still not time to think you are winning him. he might have been so hurt that he will never trust again. dont get your hopes up yet.
and, avoid the roomie. your man needs that reassurance. normally you have to be friends with the roomie, but in this case. only talk to him when your man is there.
also, you can try to talking to him about it, like" did i do something wrong? do you think i was encouraging him? do you think i would hurt you like that ? " if he doesnt want to talk about it, let it go.
- 1 decade ago
He notices things like that. I bet he's used to so called friends hitting on or trying to take away girls that he's seeing. He's just calm and collective about it, even though he hates it. I'm willing to bet he went down stairs in order to get away from his friend's attempt of hitting on you. You said and did the absolute best thing. Which I promise spoke volumes to the guy your seeing.
- 1 decade ago
i think the guy that said "He has been hitting on you all night I think" like you. if not, then he is being a friend and letting you know what the other guy is doing
- 1 decade ago
Yuppers... I think I made my case earlier. He's playing it cool - that's a good thing. He seems to like you plenty.
