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My mom died last January. I miss her so much. The rest of the family seem to be taking it much better than me?

Why cant I get over it . I wish so--bad --she wouldnt have died.She was my best friend.Do you think there is a heaven and will I ever see her again??Should I consult a medium to see if she is ok ?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I'm sorry for your loss. My mom passed away 3 years ago this December. It was the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with. The one thing that helped me through it was remembering what my dad told me. Just before she passed she told him she could see my grandma (her mom) and her dog Josie (both passed away about a year before she did). That showed me that she was happy and there is a chance of seeing her again in the afterlife. That and knowing she wasn't in pain anymore helped me cope with the loss. I wish you luck and be strong.

  • 1 decade ago

    If you're gonna spend money, I would suggest spending it on seeing a psychiatrist, not a medium. You need someone to talk to and deal with this in a manner that is emotionally and mentally healthy. What if you saw a medium and she told you something you didn't want to hear? Wouldn't that make the transition even harder?

    Talk to someone and get help - you can work through it.

  • 1 decade ago

    sweet heart to tell you the truth i dont think you will. My father passed away 18 years ago today and im not even over that and my ex boyfriend of three years passed away. I'm not over that ether. Some times I wonder is there a heaven are they up there looking over me. you know the same old stuff. Some time she might come to you in your dreams and you dont even know it... I wish I could help you but my uncle tells me with in time you will get over it

    Source(s): myself
  • 1 decade ago

    I'm so sorry. I cannot imagine losing my mom.

    Have you considered a support group? It is most likely free and would provide a lot of comfort and understanding as the other members will know what you are going through.

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  • 1 decade ago

    your never going to actually get over something like that. just don't mourn too long. that could cause very serious health issues for you. its ok to be sad...but don't dwell on it.

    yes, i do believe in heaven. hopefully one day you will be able to see her again.

    i dint believe in mediums to give you an answer to that question. i would just simply ask you to pray for peace of mind.

  • 1 decade ago

    I am really sorry. I can feel how much you miss her.

    It's a loss you'll feel forever and although it lessens down the road, it will hurt forever.

    Hang in there.

  • 1 decade ago

    You could of been in shock when it first happen. It is very common, and you are now accepting, and coping with the facts. Just know wherever she is, she's in peace.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    sorry to hear that

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