why do i think about someone else if i love my husband?

It is normal to feel attracted to someone else, especially when they are clearly attracted to YOU, because it is a confidence boost: it affirms to you that you are an attractive woman that other men find desirable. Your husband does too: he married you! Remove the temptation and start shopping somewhere else, and focus some extra attention on your hubby, soon all you will be able to think about is the great guy you married! If Supermarket Dude continues to seek you out, talk about you husband and how you're getting ready for a special night out so you are in a hurry to get home to him... repeat repeat repeat until SD gets the message!

Hi i have a question about this person was he your first love if so then i can understand why you feel the way you do.Sometime in life we think that our first love be male or female that they're out of our heart and we move on and sometimes find someone else.Then we find ourselves thinking about this person and wondering what happen.We fall for other people and maybe even get married as you did but the harder you try to get over this person i bet it's very hard.I think maybe you should exam your heart so see what your heart says.If you don't you may end up in a unhappy marriage and that's not far for you or your husband.If your mother is around try talking to her i believe she will be able to help you out.Good luck i wish you well

Listen, I call myself living single as a joke to myself, I have been married for 7 years.

I love my husband more than I love everyone except for MY KIDS. Thay are number 1.

So, I think about different people and situations when we have sex because I can have an orgasm every time, or even twice every time, if I do this. If I thought about my husband only, I would be too irritated to be able to enjoy it every day.

I do not feel guilty. You should not feel guilty. I can assure you that your husband pleasures himself often while looking at video/pictures of other women naked.

Why let it bother you?

Just don't ever tell him. He thinks it's a big secret that he thinks about other women all day long, off and on, but you know better than that I hope.......................

I have no doubt that you love your husband, but it is actually very natural for you to think about someone else. If it is someone you have never dated or really even knew, it lends a bit of mystery and excitement. alot of it has to do with you thinking about how different he may be from your husband. We are human beings and we all think about others, that does not mean you love them or even have any feelings other than mere interest towards them. So don't feel bad about your thoughts, they are yours and yours alone and as long as you dont act on them unless you are ready to deal with the consequence you will have no problem. So enjoy your little day dreams and don't worry!

this is normal , I been married for along time now and I not going to say I have never thought about a nother Man before , because he shown me attention that I was not getting from my Husband , it was not that I wanted to cheat on him , But it was nice to feel wanted and have that attention from another man besides my husband !

But If you love your husband then do not go no futher then the store .

I been there and I sure I be there again ... but Just love your husband and be faithful to him ... this man will go away someday !

That is a normal reaction. Since you can't get him off of your mind you might need to shop at another store or let your husband do the shopping. Would you like it if your husband had a crush on the bag lady? You're playing with fire, better be careful before you burn yourself.

You're human..people think about lots of things at lots of times but just don't always share what they think is "weird" and are ok with "thinking" whatever they think. Let your mind have the fun that you can't live out...That's how movies are made; and books and songs are written...

its a change of senery that you like. A different kind of attention your getting like when you and your husband first started dating,

your just infatuated with the feeling and that man, But realize who is number one. You are married. So i guess thats when you bite the bullet of marraige..lol

no touchie touchie! only lookie lookie!

lol.....

till the dude that you are marred and that you love him so much and if he doesn't stop hitting on you and yes that is what he is doing then till him to and sooner or later when stop you will realize that you love your husband more then that guy

I don't think you REALLY love your husband, or you would not think of other guy that often.