OMG!!!! please please help me!??

It won't be that much of a deal for you IF there is some room you can be in which is private, not including your bedroom, and his folks have a separate bath. You can sound insulate your bedroom. But if they are messy pigs maybe you want to forget the whole thing with him.

First, you have been together for a long time and you should love and respect his parents regardless of their lifestyle. What you can do is make it a point that you are having trouble adjusting to their lifestyle because you have been brought up in a clean environment. For example, when you all move in together begin cleaning everything left and right until you get sick of it. Then, explain your frustrations and tell your hubby that you are sick and tired of cleaning everyones mess and need some help. If no one helps, hire a cleaning lady. Second, put yourself in his shoes, if you came up with some extra cash wouldnt you want to better yourself, and the ones you love? Third, stop being a whining ***** and be happy. The guy you love has struck it big and all you can do is complain and look at the negative. You really need to take a step back and be thankful for what you have received. If you still are not happy, then leave...

You have to be honest!! You have to be confident that you can discuss this with your man without ruining what you have. Make your requests known! Ask him to pay for the place his parents live even upgrade it. If they move in, maybe they could live in another part of the house. (or a separate house if you will have land too) Just make sure he knows exactly how you feel! Best Wishes!

That's bad news. Everyone should live in there own home. If you live with your his parents all of you will end up having problems. You need to talk to him but it is kinda late for that because he already told them and how can he back out. I guess just talk to him without being rude, let him know how you feel and maybe both of you will come to an understanding.

Good luck.

I think that you should talk to him about it! tell him that you cant move in with him until he decides what to do, if he is gonna make you unhappy then either move on, but your best bet is to talk it out and compromise the situation so that it works out for both of you. and if you cant work it out then it wasn't meant to be at this time wait a while till you two are seriously ready to move in toghter.

maybe he could get them like a house on the same land as yours is on that way they are not actually living in the same house... i feel for you,that would be hard just getting married and having your in-laws move in...

Just don't be an you know what about it just try to explain it to them or find a place for them to live.

dont you think your being alittle jealous after all HE came into the money not you. plus if you dislike it that much and if hes going to be ur husband then you need to learn to talk to him so approach him about it.

Tell him no way! If he says no...dump him. There are plenty of rich guys out there who've cut the umbilical cord..

Talk to him about it. Open communication is the best option.