I,m wanting to sleep with my pastor from church. What do I do. I dont think he's married. I just want him bad!

Your bad. You want to make a good man fall and go to hell......leave him alone......

It is temptation and not worth the trouble. A pastor is supossed to up hold laws and sex with someone he's not married to will damage him mor than that orgasm is worth. I am sure you are aware of how big this issue actually is because you asked the question. Honey it is lust and you have to over power it and don't let it stand between you being in church and how you respect yourself and your pastor. My pastor taught me some ways to shake it off. When you get a thought of being with your pastor pnch yourself, scream, or do something shocking. It will cause your mind to focus on what you just did instead of your thought. Pray about what you feel because it isn't right. Now if your pastor isn't married then dating is okay but sex isn't. Pastors are human but God comes first.

You are not alone on this. I have seen this many time, and in many different churches. The problem is if you act on these feeling, you will loose big time! Everybody at that church will find out (they always do), they will hate you, and remember your name for as long as they live. Some newspapers that like to publish articles about Christians that fall. If your family lives in this community, they will also carry the Burdon.

I have seen this happen many times. Do what you need to do to turn off there desire and this may be hard. Family counseling may be a good idea, and finding another church.

hmmm....interesting - i have read the other comments, and all seem so negative, but i'm not so sure. perhaps the attraction could be mutual, but you need to handle this in a respectful and mature manner. could you possibly arrange a dinner party? with a number of people there (to keep you in the "proper" mode), perhaps you could maneuver a moment to get to know him a little better. if he is interested, he will make the proper RESPECTFUL advances/moves. 4 goodness sakes, do not act wantonly - after all, he is a pastor! slow but steady oftentimes wins the race (turtle and hare, remember)?? take care, andra j

You what? Sorry not a good idea he has to set an example your behaviour is totally wrong leave him alone I am a single Christian woman living in North Derbyshire in the UK and I have to tell you that I wouldn't do it to my Pastor! You need to repent of this shameful behaviour.

May God forgive you.

Mandyr

If he's not married, ask him out on a date. To those that responded that pastors can't have sex, they are thinking about priests in the Catholic church. Pastors are usually married and usually have a sex life. He probably won't give it up unless you marry him, though.

Are you insane? Which part of thou shalt not commit fornication or adultery did you not get from the Bible? First and foremost, in the eyes of God it is as if you have already committed the act because it is in your heart. Wishing for something like that is not wise on your part. If will only lead to you been hurt and emotionally wounded in the end. Ask God to help you get this sin out of your heart. All the best!!

U Have No Life If U Want To Ruin Someone Elses.

I think that if you are a true believer than you should not let temptations over ride you. You are worth more than that to let satan fool you. Of course you are not the only one who wants to sleep w/him b/e there are others tempted. Be true to yourself and God and pass this test. It'll surpass and you will forget you ever felt that way.

WHAT?!?!? You don't even know him well enough to know if he's married???

What the heck is the matter with you????

If that's the only reason you go to church, quit going. You got a problem.

Pray hard against it! Do not let him know what you want. It could be disastrous for both of you and for the church. Find another church.