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Can A person die of a broken heart?
My bf of 5 years broke up wit me said we need time apart and that he will come back to me. We have two kids together 2mo and 3 year old. The only bf ive had. the person i gave my virginity too. im 24 now. Right now he's living with another girl he been knowin for 2 mo and has sex with her and everything. I cant eat, sleep, focus on school, nor focus on my kids, my heart is physically in pain i want to go to the emergency room because im having chest pains but i dont wanna be stupid and tell them im heartbroken.But i feel so weak like im floating everyday. I feel like life has no purpose for me. I really just feel like dying but im not suicidal i dont believe in that if i did i probably would. Any Advice.
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- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I know it hurts when a person you love just up and leave. I would like to say to you turn to GOD, and he can heal your broken heart. He may be doing you a favor by leaving, sparing you the pain of being in a relationship with him and him being with someone else at the same time. You know sometimes GOD split things up for a reason. GOD is doing that because he does not believe in fornication ( having sex and not being married ). I used to live that way, until I went to church and decided to live for GOD. My husband now was my bf, until I told him I would no longer live in sin with him. Pray and ask GOD to give you guidance and give you the strength to let him go. Read the bible, and learn what it says about living in sin. If we put GOD at the head of our life, and give him the honor and praise that he deserve and live the way that he wants us to, things would be a lot better in our lives. In the bible in Phillippians 4:13 it says: I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me, meaning our strength comes from Christ, believing and having faith in him. I say do not let him come back, if he can just walk away from you and his kids he doesn't love you. First, you must love yourself so that you would not be willing to accept this kind of treatment. Secondly, those kids need and depend on you right now, they need your love and undivided attention. You are going to school which is a great thing, keep going and don't let this deter you from your plans. He walked away from a good thing let him keep stepping. Remember GOD can heal all pains in our lives if we just let him come in and take control of our lives. I will pray for you and ask GOD to bring you through this, and I know he will.
- 5 years ago
People can will themselves to die. So is believed. I know my great grandma died 1 year to the day of my great grandpa. same time of day same place. If she's leaving can you really say she is worth your life. If she goes she certainly woiuldn't seem to care about yours. First it's only a possible. Second, You can find good purpose in this life. Third, Do you have kids? They will miss you. I miss my dad He's been gone almost 35 years. Still wish he was here. Fourth, Helping others is always good too. You can still make a difference in someones life and feel fulfilled. Maybe not as much or in the same way, but there are ways to cope and get through disasters and grievous losses. I'm prayin' she stay's or you make peace with it if she goes. Keep eating and get up off yer butt because you are worth it!
- wise1Lv 51 decade ago
You might be freaking out.
Breaking up is hard, but a broken heart is depression.
Let's think this through.
Chest pains could be heart problems or possibly asthma.
It's fall, and where I am the fall weeds are making my nose run, your lungs could be full of mucous making it difficult to breath. I have had that happen and thought it was my heart. When I figured out that it was just some difficulty breathing I freaked out less. Drink some water to increase hydration and cough really deeply to help get your lungs clear, if it's a bit of asthma due to seasonal allergies. That might be all you'll need to do, that's all I've ever had to do. At least you'll figure out if it's your lungs or not.
If that doesn't help go to the ER if you are really worried, just don't say it's a broken heart, just say you think your having some heart problems. (Don't mention breaking up at this point or they'll send you for mental help, and that's not the concern at this point. )
Good luck. Sorry about the breakup.
Hope you feel better.
- 1 decade ago
You should n't have to put up with that from anyone .You deserve better . No you will not die from a broken heart , but I know how you feel , I too have been there , try your hardest to make yourself go on with your schooling and by all means take care of your babies and if you have other friends and family let them help you through this , if not go to church .
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- 1 decade ago
first off...get to the hospital but I know it seems pretty bad right now but it will get better and you will meet someone else who will love you and you'll get married and have a baby for him and all that good stuff...but in the mean time pray and ask God to ease the heart............I question why he would want to seperate with you after the baby and get so involved so quickly with someone.........he's known her 2mos isn't that the baby age....i smell a rat..........I would move on I wouldn't take him back he slept with her ewwwww. Girl I'm praying for you and congrats on the baby and you new life........Hey your single now go mingle hell........cuz it seems like he been dealing with that girl...don't be stupid for him.
- 1 decade ago
That is terrible. That guy doesn't sound like a good guy at all for doing that. I really don't know what to say for a solution to that. If a girl did that to me I would never let them come back. That's one of the saddest things I've heard.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Honey I feel so bad for you. sounds like you are going through a bout of depression. I have been there and by the grace of God I pulled out of it. You can get medications for the depression. but you need to ask the Lord to give you the strenght to get through your hurt. He will help you through. I will pray for you also. God is there for the asking. He doesn't want you to go through all the pain. just pray to him and ask him to help you to get through this. he will answer your prayers. He loves you very much. God Bless you and your children. I know it must be hard on them too. I know mine went through the same thing with me. The Lord pulled me through it all and a better person. hugs to you and your babies.Will be praying for you.
Source(s): Been there myself. - kayneriendLv 61 decade ago
I feel for you. He's was not too much to commit for real. You at least get support from him for the children. And take it easy, see a professional to talk it over, you can't go like this. You need help. With time it will ease up, meanwhile, try to talk to him, see what he's got to say, you'lle situated... Truly sorry for your ordeal...
- 1 decade ago
yes, a person can die of sadness, but you have a great reason for living your kids, you feel like that because he was the only men in your live but don't worried to much, he will come back some day, and that day you are already a stronger woman and if he want to come back to you, don't forget you to put the rules on you life
- KitikatLv 61 decade ago
my advice is..if you love something let it go, if it is meant to be it will return to you. You need to pull it together your babies need you to be all there for them. Give your babies 110% keep yourself so busy with them that you don't have time to think about him. If he's moved on then maybe it's time for you to do the same. Time does not heal, but it does make the hurt more bearable.