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Proud 2 b Indian asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

common friend creating havoc... help!!?

my bf n me have a friend. 99% of the ppl that meet him ask me if hes gay. n i have to admit he realy is girly. and he talks 2 mch to my bf! n invariably at the time when im talking to him. he will call him or interupt. so coz of him my bf is nt able 2 talk 2 me. n my bf is the most inocent persn on earth. his philosophy is that its ok to acomodate others needs even if it causes us sme trouble. n every time that guy talks to him, my bf tells me to wait till he talks to him.

mayb im imagining things.but im vry upset n i hav to admit im vry jealous n angry. what should i do??

worst still is the fact that my bf and me live in diferent countries. n when i m chatting with my bf he will start chatting with him too. or he will call my bf at the time im chatting. so my bf cant talk to me. n my bf generally comes online for a short time. n by the time that moron keeps the phone down its time for my bf to go. i dont know whether he is aware that me n my bf are talking. help!!

Update:

another thing.. i cant break up with my bf... hes the luv of my life...

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  • Corinne
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
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    Wow. You have a major issue going on here. I know how you feel, too....I had a guy friend who was really femmi like that. You need to confront the two of them and end this constant fight over who's talking to whom. Dump your friend, talk with your boyfriend, do whatever it takes to stop them from leaving you out and butting in. It is indescribably rude, and I am sure they both know what they are doing. You need to decide who is the better man here, and tell these guys exactly what they need to be stopping.

    good luck!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i think 1st of all this guy IS gay & he probably likes ur bf but i dont think that ur guy is gay he's just in the dark i think u should tell him how u feel go in2 detail with emotion & i think he will at the very least take ur feelings in2 account & make more time 4 u.

    good luck!!!!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    wow if u feel this strong you have to tell your friend to step off and let u have some time to call your bf if he dosnt u shouldent be friends wit someone who dosent respect you and understand you need time to talk!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    The fact is your bf is a gay too. Leave him alone. Otherwise, you too would end up someone like him only.

    Source(s): own
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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    tell your bf that you feel left out and replace by your other friend, that you understand that the other friend needs him but you do too. tell him how much you missed him that should make realise how much he has forgotten about you.

    all the best *=)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    ever heard the saying keep your friends close and your enemies closer... try it dear... make this other guy your "friend". if your bf is closer to him than you, you will find out soon enough... good luck!

  • pc
    1 decade ago

    जाके , मूर्ख को समझा ....के ..तुम्हारा BF...IS NOT A GAY ...समझ मै आया तो टीक वरना ...अपने BF से बोल के वो तो गे न हो ..और थोडा strong hone kaa....If he can't give u that much of importance then ..काहे का bf ...ditch him ..one day either he will become gay or ..will come to u crying ...

  • sasi
    1 decade ago

    no time pls

  • priyankji
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    no one has d time to read this story

    post it on some story blog

  • only kewal
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    good thinking if your bf realise for ever .......

    kewal............

    Source(s): self study
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