I have no clue if he's in love with someone else... Please help me...?

sounds like he wants to keep you around because it makes him feel secure as he flirts and solicits other women. some people just don't get it which is unfortunate. he has a lot of energy to expend on women and worst of all he loves, maybe even needs the attention. i would not want to feel in competition with other women. this relationship would not work for me. try to deal with your own over dependence on him and your own insecurities by lessening the "putting him on a pedastal" syndrome. he's not that great of a guy if he can't understand that his actions are hurtful to you and in a way he is already betraying you by being to extroverted in the female flirting arena. i'd be very careful and wary of him.

sweetie, guys need time every so often. If he says he loves you and you do as well then give him time to come out of his cave. When your man retreats into his cave, honey do not go checking up on him, he will retreat even further. Try taking his word for it then one time when he is all about you and you are competing as to who loves who the most, bring this up and tell him you feel a little insecure when he overdoes his flirting. Guys also need a little breather just as much as you do.....try getting some nice gentleman friends to chat with sometimes.

He might love you, AND someone else. He might be unable to commit to only one of you, and maybe his ego is stroked by having more than one 'girlfriend'. How about this: have you tried asking him how he feels about the other or others?

You cannot lose what you do not have. You can never have another, you can only enjoy the moment.