Just curious, as a guy who is seeking a girl who is looking for a lasting relationship..?

1.) Live your life as normal.

2.) Introductions via friends, family, and coworkers are by far and away the best way to meet sane women. If these "agents" of yours aren't already on the lookout, you might subtly encourage them to be so.

Introductions (a screening process of sorts, having other people do some of the work while you live your life) have been the preferred method of discerning people for hundreds if not thousands of years.

With this method, you should always have someone /properly/ introduce you (and they must know the other person). That ensures the greatest chance of success in terms of a sane woman and a sensible relationship.

I'm sure you've heard this before but... Things happen when you least expect it, and your not looking for it...It sux, but it's somewhat true...I stayed single for like 3 years after a 5 year relationship, and I was missing companionship and wanted someone in my life, but everytime I got my hopes up, they'd get crushed and then I just let it out of my mind and thought to myself that there's someone for everyone and I'm gonna wait for it to happen...sure enough....It was someone I met along my going out nights, but never even looked at him like that and then one night it kinda just happened...and we've been together for a year and a half....my point is, just let it happen, but you could get yourself involved in activities that bring a lot of people around and depending on where you live, it near water, go to the beach more often...if your in the city settings, start checking out stores you never would go in...if you like sports, go check out more games...if you go the extra set to do things that you wouldn't normally do but there things that you enjoy, it's a plus, because if you were to meet someone in that setting, you both will be on the same page! Good Luck, and remember, things happen when you least expect it!

well you always have to try, waiting for something only get's you the person you end up with ,searching gets you the person you want,And you'll meet this person when she enters your heart.