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what should i do?

my wife isn't very sexual...she doesn't like giving oral, she won't do anal, and regular sex is a problem because she'd rather watch t.v. we have 3 kids..15,8 &3 and i don't want to get a divorce because i want to be in their lives but i'm sexually frustrated. SHOULD I CHEAT? because whenever i bring up sex she get's pissed and withdraws...I don't know what to do...HELP !!!!!!!!!!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Your wife sounds very over-worked with 3 kids...

    No, you shouldn't cheat. Perhaps, you can do other things to rekindle your love life. Have a date night & she can choose, get a baby sitter...make a list of things you both would like to do together including sex...& see if, this helps...talk to a counselor...

    Source(s): *Nursing background 20 years.
  • 1 decade ago

    Divorce is definitely not the answer! Think about it...you want to divorce her JUST because she doesn't like to have sex? Big deal! There are other ways to express love towards each other.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    maybe she doesnt want sex cuz when you have sex it stretches her vagina muscles and since you have 3, its worse. so when you guys do it, she gets no pleasure and feels nothing! but yo i do know that she can get surgery bro if she and you want her to get it, y'know

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