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love is so difficult...?!?

im in love with a girl and she says that she loves me too,but she has a boyfriend and she is head over heels for him.we have been friends for forever and weve made out a few times but weve never dated. what can i do to make her relize that im the one for her instead of this guy?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    how do you know for sure you're the one for her? Can you beat the other guy in terms of what she likes about that guy? As long as you can find out what she likes about that guy that keeps her and him together and give her more of those, she might be dating you then.

  • 1 decade ago

    She's going to have to figure this out on her own. She says she loves you too. Are you sure she isn't just stringing you a long. Please don't wait for this girl to make up her mind, you need to get out there and find another girl, one who will love YOU and ONLY YOU.

  • 1 decade ago

    Walk away.. it is the only way to get her to follow. If you care too much as you do she know's she has you in her back pocket and will just keep you hanging on.

    Run Forest Run!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I would spend less time with her, and see if she notices the change...(still be friendly with her of course.)

    See if she is concerned that she is not seeing you as often. If she makes the effort to come see you more, this will tell you that she likes you.

    She will realize that she misses you, and that your more important and needed than the other guy.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You don't. You let her find out herself. You just be you and if it's meant to happen it will.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    She loves you as a friend so keep it that way.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It's only as difficult as you make it.......

    Black or white?

    Eat or starve?

    Be happy or sad?

    Be honest or lie?

    Be good or bad?

  • 1 decade ago

    frame him.

    aha

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