why is it so hard to find a friend who is really ur frnd?

Girl I understand completely. I have always seemed to pick the worst "friends" in the world. If they dont up and dissapere they talk chit about you behind your back and make fun of you and well whatever else they find amusing about you. I found though that in life there are gonna be times when you need someone there and when you take a look around theres no one. I have come to the conclusion that I will be my own best friend and stop looking for that person I can confide in when my hubby gets me down. My cat is my bestfriend and well so is my hubby but my cat cant talk back to me and my hubby thinks im crazy sometimes (like I make big deals out of small things). I hope that at some point you are able to find that person you can confide in but until that time keep your head up and know there is a friend out there who feels just like you and is waiting for that person they feel they can trust. Life is going to only get harder as you get older. Atleast you have a group of friends. Seriously the only people I have in my life are my family (who dont really care) and my hubby (who only has time for what he sees is important) I have had death take my only 2 true friends aways from me so I have been left with nothing. Just remember you will always pull through if you allow yourself to.

You don't need to find them but just be natural (be what you are), be friendly to everyone. Offer help if someone is in need, greet them when you see and smile a lot. You will find those that come back and talk to you often probably likes you and would be your best friend.

I get those feelings all the time. I could share the same stories with you but this is only making me very sad. I am surprised to know there is one out there just like me!

Hey I dont know but alot of people have said that about me, that Im a good friend but I always leave their lives, but of you would like I can have your long distance true friend, I live in Germany so I wouldnt be much of a short distance friend, but i promise ill try never to loose contact with you. heres my email keve12000@yahoo.com byr :)

because a good true sincere friend is hard to find.

and it is also because of this modern materialistic world, the variable changes and exposure and circumstances affecting people...

yet a good true friend shall always be with you in any season of your life... any trial or ups or downs .... he/she is there to give you moral support...

be optimistic and you'll magnetize positive results!

simplicity - honesty - generosity - openess - flexibility - humour - lively/jolly - trustworthy - loyal - faithful all these carry with you in your attitude/personality and you'll find a good true friend!

You dont need to find them but be good to nature and people around you, always reach out to to people's need, make people confine thier worries in you. and you'll notice that you won't be findin friend, friends will be findin you.......... stay tyt

because many people in the world that are not serious that is why you should not trust on them.... and someday you will know if they are a true friend or not...

and they want to have many friends.. if they stick in one friend they can not have more....

THAT IS LIFE!!!!