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can the girls ever change the "bad guys"?
ok i ive been going out w. this guy and he was pretty bad at first..he says hes changed and he is better i will admitt..but suddenly hes slowly starting to turn bad again..nothing big or anything just little things thats making me ask if he just changed for a while so id keep him adn is it possible for a girl to change a bad guy..and if so how? and if i cant does that mean im not good enough or not right for him?
15 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Guys don't change unless if they want to change. Asking them to change will never work. Just because you think the way he acts is a problem, he doesn't see it as a problem (or he wouldn't be doing it).
Find a different person to date.
- 1 decade ago
This is another easy one. Just as a leopard can`t change it`s spots, it`s a rare man that can change his. Face it, by the time we are 10, our personalities are set in stone...nothing changes them. So...one might act as though they have changed...but nothing can keep them from returning to what is natural for them. So don`t take anyone`s word. Watch what they do...don`t listen to what they say.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
no, bad guys are just that, bad. women think that there puzzy is the best and can change up the man to the way they want. When they dont and that bad boi gets wit a new chick they get all hurt.
- 1 decade ago
toughie
it is possible for someone to change
you shouldnt have to 'change him' tho
he should naturally change if he realizes that he needs to to be with you
and you are taking the risk
of changing to his ways beucase of hanging out with him so much
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
you cant change someone unless they want to change themselves. Girls always think that once they catch his eye they will be able to change him but that does not work unless the guy himself wants to change.
- CassieLv 41 decade ago
you cant change them, i've tried, they say they can and say that they did and you think that they did and they act like it, bt in the end they are still the same person and if you believe them you will end up being hurt in the end trust me!!!
Source(s): ME - 1 decade ago
in my opinion you can never change someone. they have to want to change and be able to change themselves. i especially go after the "bad boys" and have tried a million times to change them myself. i was never able to. it'snot that your not good enough it's that he's not good enough for you to want to change for you.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
you can't change anybody listen to that ciara song with 50 cent
- Anonymous1 decade ago
It is nor ever was your place to change him and he should leave you for even suggesting that
- Info_PleaseLv 41 decade ago
Women marry men thinking they will change.
Men marry women thinking they won't change.
Both groups are wrong.