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I'm extremly shy and dont know how to rit myself of it !!!!?

I go to the library doing mind numbing things and I want to go to lunch instead but I sit by myself how do I make more friends when I'm a boring person in and out of school?

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  • Andy C
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
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    your 2 main points.

    1"Im a boring person"

    2"make more friends"

    1 you feel like you ahve nothing to talk about as far as current activities go. easy do more interesting and varied things.

    2 you feel like you dont talk to any/enough people. well talk to them.

    your not dull you already know this. your shy. well theres only one way to solve it - be brave and do it any way. so you feel nervous, shy afraid, courage aint courage unless you do some that seems to act brave but doesnt feel afraid isnt brave.

  • 1 decade ago

    There are a lot of people who use self-talk to handle what is going on inside their minds. When self-talk is not monitored cautiously it can lead to drastic effects not only on one’s personality but also affects its mentality and psychology. Self-talk is a type of conversation which we conduct with ourselves. In literature we call it soliloquy. Brain’s reticular activating system never forgets what we repeat again and again. Ironically this system can not recognize what is beneficial to the individual and what is not. Think you can, think you can't; either way, you'll be right- a saying goes like this. Therefore when ever we ‘talk’ with ourselves, we should be cautious, very cautious in fact. If I recall there is a book ‘self-talk solutions’ which is every effective in this scenario.

    Source(s): I am doctor and practicing in Murree, Pakistan.
  • 1 decade ago

    Hey Girl, Just take chances, for everyday talk to new people, say Hi to people you won't otherwise say Hi to. Ask them how they are how they are doing. YOU ARE NOT A BORING PERSON!!!

    Dress nice, Smile more, Be happy and friends will come to you like a magnet!!!

    Also, Give things to other people :)

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