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How do you help a family member that is mentally ill?

My brother is displaying symptoms of schizophrenia. It doesn't run in the family so I'm not familiar with how to help him. My family wants to help him, but we don't know how to approach the subject. I've witnessed him having imaginery phone conversations, paranoia, and saying weird things that just aren't true. He has also become very jealous of his wife and he has sudden outbursts of anger.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Clearly these symptoms are characteristic of schizophrenia or similar diagnosis. Schizophrenia in particular, usually kicks in around early adulthood, sometimes later.

    Mental illness can be so hard to treat for many reasons. There are a number of organizations available for assistance, like your local NAMI (national alliance on mental illness- http://www.nami.org/).

    Family members need to be united to do what it takes to get the loved one help.

    If he becomes a threat to himself or others, he can be involuntarily committed to a psychiatric hospital for a few days, and they will be able to diagnose and treat him at that time.

    Schizophrenia is particularly difficult because those who suffer from it often can't accept that they have it, and become non compliant with medications.

    If you end up approaching him and he's willing to see a doctor, I recommend you go to a clinic in the nearest major city, that specializes in schizophrenia...trust me, don't fart around with the local psychiatrist in some podunk town.

    I got my brother (who has bipolar disorder) to go to the clinic in Philly (1.5 hours away) and he's been stabilized for a year.

    Good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    You have three wonderful answers here already, and I hope you will take them to heart. I would like to add that you can show your brother total acceptance and unconditional support no matter what. Sometimes that has to take the form of insisting he get help he doesn't think he needs, but that is love in action.

    Then be sure to educate yourselves, and particularly his wife and children, if any, about his condition, and give them the support they will need. Find a support group if that will help.

    NAMI is great for this -- free education, lots of resources, helping to break down the social stigma, and more. Support groups, etc.

    Source(s): My husband is bipolar, many hospitalizations and other treatments
  • 1 decade ago

    I have an uncle who has schizophrenia and i know it might be upsetting for you to see your brother like this but just keep calm and treat him like you always have done in the past. don't undermined him or treat him like a child he will know,people who have this illness are very clever. It is best to agree with him when he has outbursts and try not to say anything that will make him more paranoid, also try to have one person he trusts and can relate to as overcrowding can make him more agitated.

    Source(s): own experiences with a close relative.
  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

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