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There's this guy who's courting me and part of me wants to say no but the other part says yes what will I do
The guy has many friends and part of me wants to say yes because I had a major crush on the guy for a couple of months now but some of my friends says 'don't do it' because he is a bit of a bad influence but if I say no I think that some of his friends might hate me because I broke his heart. What will I do?
4 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
The courtship phase is where you need to take the time to get to know a person and determine if their character values and behavior matches/complements yours.
This is your life and decision. While it's good to take other people's advice into consideration, you are the one who has the final say and will have to live with any good or bad CONSEQUENCES that may arise.
Physical attraction and chemistry is all well and good, but remember that if you both have fundamental differences in moral viewpoints, character values and behavior the rlsp will not work out.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Courting XD that's cute. Anyway, it depends on what kind of influence you're meaning. Do remember your friends during a relationship, but don't let them rule it. If he's taking toll on your mental or physical health, try seeing it from their point of veiw and determine if you can't try to change that behavior that cause s bad things
- 1 decade ago
Why do you have to accept peer pressure? Always listen to your gut instincts and if you're not into him because he is a bad influence then move on! Don't do something you don't want to because you're afraid that you'll look bad.
- 1 decade ago
If you want to be with him then go or it. If you decide not to be with him its not the end of the world. You shouldn't care if his friends like you or not.