I usually never ask questions.?

first off, that is a generalization, because not ALL women feel that way. of the ones that do, some usually have self esteem issues, and feel (sub-consciously) that they don't deserve or cannot get a good guy.

for others, they meet a guy and at first he is perfect and then as time goes by he starts acting like a jerk and instead of leaving him, she feels that she can change him, or if she just does something different he will go back to acting the way he used to. I see this all the time with my friends. they don't want to be with a jerk, they want to be with the man they fell in love with, and don't realize that that man is a jerk. its like an endless cycle. and unfortunately it is hard to recognize when you are on the inside. those on the outside looking in can see what is happening.

I don't know if this is much help but you should realize that it is usually not a conscious decision. they want to be with good men, but instead of finding one, they want to turn a jerk into one.

I can honestly say that I, or any of my family members or friends, will not allow a man to treat me that way. I may sound like a spoiled princess but that's far from the truth. For a man to treat a woman that way or vice versa is just truly wrong.

Women who stick with the 'bad guys' may actually be undergoing a sort of psychic numbing. When the abuse comes and they tolerate it, that's when you know it's kicked in. Don't be so quick to rule out the success stories of women who have emerged from abusive relationships a better person. They, through self-help and the guidance of others, were able to get on with their lives on a more positive note.

Then there's the idea that bad guys are sexy, they exude charisma because of their lawless streak. The truth is, women don't want wimps just as men don't want, excuse me, bitches. No, they don't really want jerks, either. Although, a strong man is subjectively defined, I think we can all agree that there's a general consensus floating in our minds that say a strong man protects his woman. Period. That bad guy streak is just a fantasy, albeit a sort of... stupid one. But hey, guys have their own fantasies, too - fantasies that can be just as stupid. Let's limit it to just that - fantasies.

So, hope I gave you a bit of what you were looking for! Good luck. :)

Well I think this question has a pretty easy answer and can go for anyone. Most people on some level will say something like this can never happen to them, But some people do fall into a relationship were the person whom they are with is actually a good person, but as time progress, things trun to hell. For the victim or victims, its hard to accept that someone that they have been around so long can hurt them. They start think what wrong with them not why is this person hurting me.

For most people its hard for them to leave a relationship like this, for kids for financal reasons, for etc.

I use to be one of those women who dated or fell for a Dirt bag type of guy. I guess it's because we are attracted to a guy who's the "Bad Boy". If you think about it men have been treating women like crap for centuries, that's just the way we think we are supposed to be treated, the man is in control and we better do as he says or else we get whopped up side the head or something. But like I said I use to be one of them, now I found a man who knows how to treat a lady with the up most respect. I hope more ladies find them one. Hope I answered your question.

Many women have a very low self esteem and they tell themselves that they don't deserve when a man treats them right. It's a psychological thing. So they associate bad treatment with love. It's that simple!

Your talking about women who aren't very mature, Once they find out what life is all about they wished they had picked a better man. But they done got themselves in a bad situation!!!!

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