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in love with my boss!!!??
he is 12 yrs older,single.im single too.we flirt, tease each other and having lots of fun. i really like him, thinking about him all the time and fell for him real hard. i know that romance a work might complicate things, but i just dont care it seems! the biggest problem for me is our age difference...do you think 12yrs is too much im 21,he is 33.
ive already finished uni and this is my first professional job. he was working there for 4yrs already...
11 Answers
- RLJLv 51 decade agoFavorite Answer
I suppose that depends. Working together could cause problems, but since you're asking about age I'll talk about that!
I know a couple very personally who have 11 years difference. They have been together now for about 10 years and have 3 kids and are still happy. so yes! go for it! don't let age put you off because sometimes it does work out.
good luck in your decision
- 1 decade ago
It could be. You are both in very different stages in your life. He's a bit settled and has gone through not only high school, but possibly college. You're young still and want to have fun and probably drink. It could work out well, or you could end up clashing, because he wants to settle down and you want to go out and live it up. Be careful with the work thing. If things go sour between you two, your job may go sour as well.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
The age difference, odds are, will work against real relationship success. The real problems will hit you both, particularly as others begin to recognize a relationship and will think (rightly or wrongly) that you will get special benefits because "you're putting out for him." (whether or not you are). People can be ugly in situations like this.
Source(s): Personal experience - Anonymous1 decade ago
As long as the age difference is alright with you, I know it's okay with him. Most men only dream of such a relationship.
Not only might it complicate things, your job and possibly future career, could be in jeopardy if the romance sours in any way.
Be careful, be warned, be wise.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
if your not worried about the possible weirdness at work, then go for it. if you like him and he likes you and your both single, who cares what the age difference is. It is what makes you happy that is important.
- 1 decade ago
No i mean people may judge you fast but it all matters how he treat you an how u feel, i say go for it life is to short,
- ClaudeLv 61 decade ago
get him to support you while you look for work elsewhere, that way you can be in a relationship & not have the problem of working together
- 1 decade ago
No its not too much its normal. Some people married with someone much much older than they are.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
well you see its like he is your father, but if its really love thats working age shouldn't be a hindrance, have a great life........mmmmwah.........