How to seduce my husband back to me?

he cheated once and well got away with it

not saying he will but it'll be a lot easier for him the second time (morally) and (mentally) because he already knows if he gets caught the worst that can happen is you'll rock his world even better.

but if your O.K. with this what are his interests do those with him and get intimate at the same time ya know what i mean think about it make yourself in-disposable. if everything he likes just gets better with you around he's gonna keep you around.

example

if he likes to fish and he drinks well make sure he gets to fish and drink but add what every man likes (busting off) and give all three at the same time

a pole in one hand a beer in the other and a woman i love between my legs well

that would be the perfect time to die for me.

and instead of cheating on her she would be on a pedestal with me worshiping her.

but every man is different what turns one on may turn another off. You have to know him to please him.

and if all else fails just ask him his fantasies most men will have no problem whatsoever telling you especially if he thinks you may make it true.

have u ever tried doing it in the mashed potatos. have someone watch the kids and make him dinner, have everything on the table and change into a summer dress. put 2 chairs together get up on them, hike up ur dress and sit down in the mashed potatos and ask him if he is hungry. good luck to u i hope this helps.

Honestly, counseling would be a good start, coupled with some "couples only time" without the kids. You need to both rebuild the trust in the relationship, and the romance.

Maybe you can get a sitter and spend some quality time together.Sex isnt always the answer,just spending time together will make all the difference in the world.And then if sex pops up go for it.Just make sure you are on the pill lol....

Um you guys need free time to be together. get someone to watch the kids for a weekend and have a romantic dinner movies stuff like that.....

Get the babies to a sitter or family and go away for a weekend to reconnect.

Wow, shouldnt he be trying to reconnect with you.

buy a book called

love tactics' and another called 'the care and feeding of husbands' by dr laura. buy a third called 'do one thing different'

read them all, they all have a different perspective and all are helpful.