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Girls, would you consider dating with a guy you just met, if he politely asks you out?

Let's say you don't have a boyfriend, and you're outside or shopping at a store. You met a guy who isn't really handsome but looks "okay," and has good manners and seems like an interesting guy. You can feel that he is not a bad guy from talking with him for a minute.

If he asks you out in a polite manner, would you be willing to date with him?

Update:

asking out for a dinner to get to know each other better?

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    if i was feeling you, and you were cute (not the normal sense, but in your mannerisms towards me), and you had confidence while asking me, then yes.

  • 1 decade ago

    Actually, there's nothing wrong on that especially if he politely ask you. But .... it also doesn't mean that ... you have to grab the opportunity.

    You have to consider many things like:

    - What he will think if you will say 'yes' on the first invitation.

    - Guys will never forget that. In the future.... surely, he'll gonna slap it on your face that you had accepted his 'first' invitation.

    Believe me. They are very good observer.

    You can politely decline his invitation by saying: "Oh, how I'd love to. But, I am really having hectic schedule today. Maybe we can have it some other time or tomorrow maybe?" (hehe).

    Enjoy and take care.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    My experience is that if you don't at least make some primary effort to get to know them, they think you are shallow and only asking them out because of the way they look (why else would you be asking a girl out that you never met or spoke to before?).

  • 1 decade ago

    Dear,

    Unfortunately human beings are not like chocolates which you can taste in a minute and decide whether you like or dislike it. Human mind is a complicated, comprehensive and at times confused mechanism. You never know the intention of this pretentive good Samaritan. So my advice is to stop at that stage and give a hearty bye to him.

    Source(s): Life is like that
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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    girls these days are a bit skitish of ppl cuz of rapist who are charming and interesting so i would be more inclinded to ask for like double dates or if you and a mate can hang out with her and a few of her mates in a very public place like a cinema and stuff

  • E E
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    One never knows. If many depraved people out there are people one knows, maybe just maybe, someone you meet is a normal decent man.

    An aunt of a friend of mine met his husband in an accident.

  • 1 decade ago

    Mostly not, I kind of want to actually like the guy if I got out with him. It would seem kind of weird to date someone you don't even know. I don't want to date him out of pity or because he seems desperate asking. It would seem rude to date him for those reasons.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Id go on a date and then choose if i like the guy

  • 1 decade ago

    I would meet him in a public place, like meeting at a coffee house for a mocha.

  • Carrie
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Nope. only after a few conversations and then we meet in a public place.

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