Do people ever change?

people do change but it sounds like your friend hasn't. She just used you again and you let her.

Fool me once - shame on you

Fool me twice - shame on me.

Yes, people do change in many ways but still some habits/personality traits do linger.

When it comes to hoping a friend will change her actions, sometimes it's better not to deal with it. People don't change overnight and changing someone can be extremely exhuasting. They have to realize the problem themself before anything can be done. I find cutting ties or loosening them will prevent atleast me forming resentment towards them or destroying a friendship. Hopefully, the person will turn around down the line and things can be patched up.

If it is a sever phycological issue (drug addiction or other destructive traits), and your friendship is extremely strong, I would suggest trying to help them out. They do need your support even if they are kicking and screaming.

um to answer the main question. I feel no not really

We can change our appearance and minor things about us. Who we are to the core doesn't change, especially because someone else wants us to.

It's a total lie to yourself if you think you will change for a friendship or that she will.

Truth be told that there probably is a reason she is upset with you, and you just didn't see it the same way. Try talking with her and seeing if you can resolve this peacefully and without losing a friendship

We ALL change.

And when one friend changes the friendship is bound to change as well, sometimes for better, sometimes for worse.

Do not give her any more money. You have set up a situation where she might feel obliged to you and that too is affecting the friendship.

This is what I have learned. Yes, people can and some do change. However, you must change also. I firmly believe that if you get taken advantage of more than once, you're the one allowing it to happen. You are the only one who can break the cycle.

My experience of such people is that they don't change for the better. She has shown her true colors. You ought to find out what you can do to get your money back.

Friendships and money do not mix. Be supportive of her emotionally but do not give her any more money. You'll only create more problems for yourself that way.

You should definitely talk to her. Reason being...people don't change. Sad, but true. In this situation that is.

Are you sure she isnt using "being pissed off" for another excuse to be unfaithful?

no typically once your personality has been set when you are 10 years old you are the same person through out life