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Help! Seriously.?

I've known this girl for about two years now. We both like each other and we know that. But recently she told me that she Thinks some boy likes her. What should i do?

btw i have gone out with her a few times already.

Im feeling lost now. She thinks some other boy likes her? Help please?

She also asked me to not let what she told me affect me. But of course its easier said than done! What should i do?

Update:

Okay. Firstly we are students, and she's having important exams now. So i cant really ask her out. But right now im like her pillar of support and its kinda hard to do so when i keep thinking of that person who she thinks likes her.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I know it sucks, but you have to let her date the other guy, it's only fair.

    I would not advise trying to block her dating attempts, because then she'll just date behind your back, which won't feel good for you, will it? It may lead to lying.

    If you both like each other, and chemistry is there, then let her go out and date. She'll see that he's not you, and she'll want you, so she'll come right back. And whatever you do, if she does go on the date, and you know the boy, DO NOT make fun of him or put him down when she's around, you will lose points faster that Kobe Bryan at the Adult Video Awards.

    However, Recently I entered into a relationship where the girl knew her best friend for years (4+, and rehab), and they've even dated before...but she's told him that she can't be with him, or even picture him like that anymore. That has got to suck for him, and at the same time in reality, it could happen to you.

    But don't focus on the bad, focus on the good. I would reccomend a straight approach, and just ask her how she feels about you, then tell her how you feel about her. Get it out there, be in the moment, speak in the moment, and let it settle in.

    Source(s): They've done studies you know, 60% of the time, it works every time!
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just because she thinks some guy likes her doesn't mean that she likes him.

    But, if you think that she does like him... make it difficult for her. Take her on the best date shes ever been on. Invite her over (on a night when anyone who lives with you is out), cook something, and then eat with her in candle light. That's just a suggestion, but do whatever you think would make her happy.

  • 1 decade ago

    If you love her, then you better Fight For Love...don't let her go, so what if you have dated a few times before it just means you know her better then any other guy she starts to date, so that puts you in a little more better position..really go get her don't let her slip away...

    Best of Luck to You :)

  • 1 decade ago

    Keep dating her. Don't ever let anyone affect the relationship you already have with her. It doesn't matter if someone else likes her. What matters is if she likes someone else. So, until she lets you know that keep her.

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  • 1 decade ago

    oh dude..its the same damn story of mine..u really suffer with that..but thank god i m through with it now...dont listen to anybody just go and tell her,she is just waiting for you to say it..dont waist time..go NOW and give her a ring and tell her...i am damn sure she will say YES..go go go..best of luck pal..reply me with her answer

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    accept the fact that she has suitors other than you.

    fight for the love you yearn. ask her out! go for it!

  • 1 decade ago

    if u like her ask her out.. simple

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