i feel that me girlfriend is cheatin on me what sould i do i love her soo much i dont want to lose her?

Could be many reasons see doesn't reply, phone lost, out of credit, she feels pressure, friends could be telling to play hard, or it could be she don't feel the way u do. Problem is the more we humans get pushed away the more we seem to want what we can't have. Give her the benefit of the doubt, stop phoning/texting her. If she's interested she will call you if not have a little cry and then move on but don't take the baggage with u to your next relationship. Trust is the basic of a good relationship. You sound a very loving. caring person don't change that, just find a girl to appreciate you.

I had a buddy that was in job corps. The people that go there usually are not the best when it comes to morals etc. I would think the outcome may be bad. They have guys and girls mixed together. I would not forgive though. This is no excuse for cheating. You could always attempt to go see her without telling her that way you can find out what's going on. Good luck

If she's not willing to put anything into the relationship, don't chase her. You can't make somebody feel a certain way. My ex whom I have 2 children with cheated on me with 4 different woman & found out just after that, he was using our money to enertain these woman. He ended up forcing me into bankruptcy for $12,000. We had been together since we were 15, we were 23 when we broke up. I'm now 28, he is getting married this up coming weekend, he's still cheating. We still talk all the time, I have learned to forgive, & he tells me everything. He messes around with woman at his work, clubs he goes out to, whereever. My 2nd ex, I met when I was 24. Everything went great, we got engaged, got pregnant, then when I was 4 mths preg, I came home one morning (3-4am) from work to an email that he was done & wanted nothing to do wih me anymore. He lives 2.5 hrs away, so I couldn't just go & see him. My youngest daughter is now 2.5 & has never known her father. He has never seen her, doesn't even know her name. There were things leading up to him leaving that I became blind to. He stopped answering my phone calls, was coming up with excuses not to come see me, so I would go see him. Then he started with excuses that I couldn't go see him. I have been single since he left. I have a hard time trusting now. Is that the position you want to be in when your 28? I'm guessing that your farely young right now. Not being able to trust woman? Having kids involved? It's not a good situation at all. But you know your situation better than I do. This is just my story.

without sounding harsh. I dont mean too. But 3 months isnt a huge amount of time to be with someone. Wot if things dont work out and you regret not moving. Cant you take her with you. Good luck by the way. Love is very painful sometimes.

First give yourself more time before thinking she is cheating on you, unless you have proof of it, if you are sure that she is then you have to think how much you really love her and then you will know what to do.

This is a personal experience I met my girlfriend last December I fell in love with her, by march her ex boyfriend came back.One afternoon i was in her place taking a nap she came home and tell me that her ex boyfriend had and accident, she asked me to leave her place to bring him in her apartment finally I left her place broken hearted.

This was really bad but i took sometime to think about it and I love her so much that we got back together, now this Christmas it will be one year together and we are so happy!!

I hope this help you!!

good luck!

I have just been through this last year. I was right he was cheating but I love him and there were things that needed to be worked out on both ends,,,First find out if its true then decide,,,,it is hard hard hard to get over,,,no matter how much you love them everytime they are late, or have to work on an odd day or when they do nothing it comes back to haunt you. Its gotten alot better and he has been there with me through it all but it is hard,,,we have kids and I knew it was something we could work through but it has been a hard road,,make sure this is someone worth investing this effort. Good Luck

Before you accuse her of cheating ,remember she has a job to do ,maybe she don't have a lot of times for phone calls.send her a letter and ask her if everything is ok ,and to call you as soon as she can.When she calls, if you know her well enough listen to her voice will also help to determine if something is really going on with her..

You said that she is cheating on you? What gives you the idea of her doing so? Alright, she may not have picked up your calls, but have you tried leaving her messages and letting her know that you've called? Could it be that she's busy with her work? Do try to have more confident in her and also in yourself, that she may not be cheating on you and that she has her reasons for not picking up your calls.

If she IS cheating on you, not just in your own insecurity-fueled paranoia, but in real life, you already HAVE lost her. She could not love and respect you, and still cheat. Doesn't happen, captain. Find out for certain, then move on if she is. Or don't you love you? Gotta love yourself first, to be able to love another, or to be loved properly by another, too, as they'll take their cue from you.

Go with your gut feeling. Sounds as if you 2 are drifting apart as she is not answering your calls. Send her a letter asking her if she wants to continue the relationship, or if she wants to end it. Either way she should be honest with you and not leave you hanging.

Unfortunatly if she doesnt answer the letter,,, you have your answer.

good luck