I'm Sooooo Upset........?

idk... if you really like him, ask him out, see what happens. its not gona end your life. if you dont ask him out, ask if he has a girlfriend or anything like that an move in from there. just make sure u find out whats going on with him.

Sounds like this guy is friends with a lot of people who are girls so if you do get it together, you need to relax and not be jealous - after all, he'll be your boyfriend, not theirs.

Could it be that the 'overheard' conversation was meant to be heard? So that it would nudge you to do something? Not maybe ask him out, if that's still a bit scary, but ask him if he saw the football game/rugby/racing/tennis or such, so that you could talk, without the pressure?

I'll start with your last comment. When a girl asks a guy out, it's usually trouble. The guy MUST take the first step. So if he doesn't ask you out, he isn't worth your emotional heartache or time.

If he doesn't like you, he doesn't like you. Don't feel like you have to persue him. Again, that's not your job. It's his.

If he does like you, be yourself. If he doesn't like you for who you are, then you'll never be happy as long as you're with him. My first and current girlfriend of 14 months went through a time when she wasn't being herself for a guy. She was miserable. Be yourself, and the right guy will come along.

P.S. It would help if you would give your age. I'm guessing your jr high or high school.

People who over hear things usually get it totally wrong. Why don't you approach this guy, just say hi and comment on the weather, ask him how his day is going. If he does like you he will try to keep the conversation going. If not he will make every excuse under the sun to leave. You have until weekend to talk to him enough for him to ask you if you want to join in whatever they are doing at the weekend. Casually ask him if he is doing anything nice at the weekend. Get it from the horses mouth, not from over heard snippets of information.

I know this isn't what you want to hear but I know how you feel. I have experienced it several times. I have found the best thing to do is just imagine there is nothing until he actually says something. There have been times I heard rumors he was going to ask me out then the next week he asked some one else and I was totally crushed. With my new philosophy I have been pleasantly surprised a few times. Just ignore the rumors until you hear it straight from him and you will save your heart some pain.

If you don't want to wonder "what might have been" years down the road you should somehow let him know that you like him! I don't know if you're in HS or college, but from my experience, especially with friends from college, guys don't always realize that you like them even if you think it's obvious! One of my guy friends in particular had no clue that there were a handful of girls that lived in his hall that had huge crushes on him. I recently reconnected with him and he wished he would have known 10 years ago so he could have dated some of them...who knows what might have happened differently in his life.

don't feel bad. there is someone out there that is made for you and the pieces will fall where they're supposed to fall. if nothing happens between you and this guy, you were meant to learn something from this experience. Take it as a good thing and don't let anything like this weigh you down.

If he really likes you he will make the first move. But it sounds to me like he loves the attention the other girls are giving him and he isn't thinking with his head or his heart. Just forget about it all, if and when the time is right it will happen and if not, it won't. God Bless.

Don't be afraid of getting rejected! You only live once so live it well! Ask him out!

and maybe the boy feels you don't like him back so he is trying to make himself feel better by asking out other girls.

Don't think too much about being jealous.

always see the good in you.

I hope i helped

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GOOD LUCK

I'm sure you've heard this before, but there are plenty of fish in the sea. If he doeesn't like you enough to ask you out, the fine. It's his loss. But don't go asking him out or do anything else to embarass yourself. It's one thing for a guy you like not to like you back. It's another thing to make a fool of youself in addition.

Thats actually happening to me right now.Just pretend like hes not even there, if he was a nice gentle men he would ask you out if he liked you :).I think thats the right thing to do. And besides there MANY other guys out there. So dont get a frown over one. I hoped this helped :D