What should I do?? I tried to quit my "fetish" but I just can't!?

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Ok Im wild about Asian girls... Well mostly Japanese girls. (there is a big differance by the way)

Well anyways I decided since there isn't any around here and Im feeling like Im getting to old that I would try going out with regular white girls. Everything was going so so I guess but I started having wild dreams about Japanese girls and I basically dream about nothing and if anything it sure isn't Japanese or Asian girls nothing like that.  Usually what most people would consider Nightmares but im just so twisted that they don't really bother me like that...

Well what do you think????? and what should I do?
Sometimes I feel Like I don't think I can have a serious relationship with a white girl... Just because the way I live they don't understand me and the fact that I have had just a crap load of problems with my last relationships with white girls.  Plus girls that like me are either old/close friends or just the worst kind of girls and never a girl i would like in that way.

luvbev2 · Accepted Answer

There are many Asian American girls in this country. Get out there and look for them. Trust me, we're around and would be happy to meet a nice guy.

jillybean5415 · Answer

There are plenty of Asian women. I think you should just continue in life until you meet someone you really want to be  with. Never settle....because you will only end up hurting that other person. If Asian women are really what you are attracted to, then go for that.
But your last paragraph is concerning......just because you had a bad relationship in the past with a white girl does not mean ALL white girls wouldn't understand you or be a bad relationship. That is pretty ignorant. I am sure there are plenty of Asian girls that you would have the same problems with.....or any nationality. It's not about race, it's about who you are.....who that person is. Seems like you are pretty hung up on outward appearances....and that you label personalities based on outward appearance & race. There are plenty of wonderful women of all races....just like there are plenty of bad people in all races.

izzy right · Answer

WELL this is a problem..you really should get some help about this ...Not all fetish are harmfully however if they interfere with your normal life and you dream about this .It could become a real problem soon or ever become serious..most people in your case develop two personalty and try to live out both with out having any luck ..please get some help even if you my be embarrassed by it .it may help you find out what is the under line problem..All girls are alike It is your thinking that the grass is greener on the other side of the fence...Try (the feeling good book) at your book store it deal with cognitive thinking this means how you think and why you thing that way..like a blueprint of life  .......good luck........DR. Dave

QWERTY · Answer

Dude, you are seriously confused.  How about moving to Tokyo?  Word has it there are a few Japanese women there.

___ · Answer

dude, just freakin move to Japan already.

Anonymous · Answer

bro, its what you like, 
my wife is 6'2 i like tall women
not a surprise
just give in to what you like

Rockstar ☆ · Answer

how old are you?  You would get along great with my dad.

Anonymous · Answer

move to Japan...then you wont have a problem.

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What should I do?? I tried to quit my "fetish" but I just can't!?

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