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Older girl, younger guy?

Do you think its ok for an older woman to date a younger guy? There is about a ten year age difference and the male is under 18....what do u think?

Update:

This relationship is not sexual at all...please don't get the wrong idea...but i work with a lady who is 30 years younger than her husband..and no one thinks there is anything wrong with it...so this made me think..is it only ok if the man is older?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    It is ok as long as dude is not younger than 18.When I was 18,I dated a girl who was 26 yrs old.I found out that I'm very mature for my age.Older women are more attractive to me than younger because of this.Women aging from 25 to 50 try to talk to me.I am 22 now but some people be thinking I am 17 or 18.There is a song out called Age is just a number.

    Source(s): The wisdom of Ndawg86
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If you have sex it is rape, otherwise it's probably a terrible idea, maybe he's mature for his age and you are immature for your age or he is immature, either way it won't work out well, he still has college and would probably view the relationship as hey I got to be with an older woman, I'm hot s****, It might work out but very unlikely, does he have a job? would you be payng all the bills? what about his college loans or his future? what if he meets someone else in college? and he always has the age difference as an out if he gets bored with you

  • 1 decade ago

    As a younger guy I think older women are disgusting . Why would I want to buy a car with 100K miles on it when I can get one with no miles and baggage? You sound like a woman that was probably too picky when she was young and now can't get laid by men her own age. He might bang you just as a trophy **** and toss you when he is done. That is what I would do.

    To answer your question, I don't think it is ok. Older women really have nothing to offer younger men other than VD.

  • 1 decade ago

    under 18??? LOL well hopefully he is over 16!! then LOL

    naw i don't have a problem with it...gee knowing this young guys myself its like they where born with massive brass balls!!!

    some knows how to do things much better than men that's so serious and don't know how to relax.

    and they step right to u hey?? looking at u as if....LOL

    anyway why i say 16 and above because generally that is the legal age.

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  • 1 decade ago

    personally age difference is WAY too far apart if it were something like he was 23 and she was 27 then I would agree

  • 1 decade ago

    It is against the law. Also, in general, I believe people should date and marry people around their own age.

  • 1 decade ago

    Its against the law,check out CSC for your state or country.

  • 1 decade ago

    If it's physical, it's not rape, but unlawful sexual conduct, I believe. Even if that's not the actual name, it's still a crime, consensual or not.

  • 1 decade ago

    Do you honestly hear what you are saying???? If this "guy" was your kid and was dating a woman 10 years older than him, would you have a problem??? DUH

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i dont know... if he's mature enough then cool

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