Men and women plz answer.....?

You must be a very patient wife. But don't let your life feel so miserable. Do something that will help you to earn some income.

There are many things you can do, and at the same time you don't have to worry about leaving your child under some body's care.

In my country some of the mother will baby-sit their friends or neighbor's children when they are out to work. The parents will send their children to her house. This way you can earn money and same time, you don't have to leave your child.

Or maybe you can cook something or bake some cookies and sell them, if this is allow in your country.

In my country, there are even a women street hawker who sells drink, some traditional cakes or any types of junk food. And often they do this with their children.

Try to think of something friend, don't let your husband torture you like that....

You only have one child mam, like me i have 4 and beginning i was a full time housewife too....but later part i decided to go back to work to help my husband to earn the family finance.

You should not feel guilty, its not like you went out and bought designer shoes or something and your kid needs a coat! What a jerk your husband is being.Im sure this is not the first time hes been like this with you, why does he need all the new clothes and shoes? He propably says because of his job, im guessing you are a homemaker which is the most important job you could have.Dont let him make you feel bad hes being ridiculous.

thats not cool. women are suppossed to have that much stuff!!!! he should be the one with the shoes that hes had for years. and he should be able to spend money on you every once in a while if you NEED it. geeeez

get a job. and buy whatever you want.

OR

you can let him treat you like that.

Get a job, make your own money and spend it on what you want. He sounds like a control freak!

It sounds like you dont work...get a job and get your own money and spend it however you want.