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Amber
Lv 4
Amber asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

Help with a guy situation? Please answer!?

I like this guy who lives like a couple of hours (diff. state) away from me. He is visiting before summer. well, we like each other and he admitted it to me and asked I liked him. I said I did, but hes not only my friend. He's my sister's as well, who is a 1 grade apart from me (im older). We talk on the phone every day (my sister, the guy i like, and me). We are like talking, telling jokes, etc. but my sister tends to talk A LOT when we are talking on the phone. Sometimes she talks about like guys i used to like and says i did stuff i didnt do with my last bf (im 14 btw). And she like embarasses me sometimes, listing all the guys I liked and stuff. Sometimes she talks so much I think he likes her instead of me because she makes me seem mean or weird or stupid. It gets really annoying. I told her that she talks to much and she says that she cant help it. I tell her to stop embarassing me, she wont! Help please!! Will he eventually stop liking me because of her? Since she says this?

Update:

I cant talk to him at different times, my sister is always is on the phone with me when we talk to him!

She has a bf and he knows that, but this guy is not my bf at the moment. Idk if i want a bf right now

his friend likes my sister

Update 2:

my sister, him, one of his friends who is a guy, one of his friends that is a girl (she liked him and asked him out but he said no), and I met at an amusement park in the state he lives in

Update 3:

we all met in august before school started

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Hi, maybe you should talk to this guy and your little sister alone, one on one and tell them how you feel. Little sisters fight all the time and they can compete for the same guy, so it's totally normal. If he stops liking you because of her, then maybe he's not worth it, but chances are if he liked you first, then you'll still be his.

    good luck =)

    Source(s): im 14 too and i have 3 little sisters
  • skye.
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    well.

    call him when she's not home.

    use your cell phone.

    hide the other phone so she can't talk to him.

    tell her that you want to talk to him alone this time.

    little sisters are gross.

    act cooler, more grown up than her and he'll go for you, not the loudmouth girl at the other end.

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