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girl-girl love. will it work?

a friend(girl) of mine is in love with another friend of mine(also a girl).they want to spend the rest of their lives together. both come from extremely orthodox,different backgrounds but met at work. as far as i know they have had sex with each other too. i personally dont think its wrong but now they want my help to settle down and tell their parents. what do i do?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I don't think you should do anything. Just because you think it's wrong doesn't mean they're not in love and can't spent the rest of their lives together. If they love each other, they can live a perfectly happy life together no matter what their parents or society thinks.

  • 1 decade ago

    so are their families really orthodox??

    because i live in a greek orthodox society and no one really actually is orthodox!!!

    anw i think they'll take it really bad but it will be the same as doing the same thing if your background isn't orthodox

    they might get kicked out of the house but if their parrents aren't egoists then they'll get used to the idea preety soon!!!

    if they are scared of what they're doing it means they shouldn't do it and that this isn't what they really want

    basically it's up to them and if they really mean/like what they do!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Eventually they'll find a way to tell their parents.

    But, what you can do right now is just support them in their life choices.

    And, there is nothing in the gender being the same, that says they won't work. It all depends on the compatibility of the human beings.

  • 1 decade ago

    STAY OUT OF IT! If they are responsible women they can handle it themselves. Also be sure to tell them that if they really love each other they won't let anything stand in the way of their being together, not even family. However, the best thing you can do is stay out of it. That's in your own best interests.

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  • 1 decade ago

    As these girl have made their own decision permission of their parents so why they now want to contacts their parents because this is not fare to marry like this.

    In my opinion you should contact their parent to say that they want to marry like this as a daughter do'nt force them to accept that relation unless they take into consideration that you help them to marry like this.

  • Brian
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    No one ever knows if a relationship will work. Most people don't like whothere children are with anyway. People put to much focus on "family approval".

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I have several lesbian couples as friends who have been together 30-50 years. In some ways they are more stable than the hetero couples I have known.

  • you cant do anything, its up to them to decide whether they want to tell their parents or not. What you can do is tell them that you support them and you will be there for them always.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you can love anyone forever. no matter what sex they are.

    I know lesbians that have been together for 40 years.

  • 1 decade ago

    they're your friends so you love them and help them regardless or else you're not really a very good friend. simple as that

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