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He wants more but I'm afraid to hurt him..?
I don't think he's the right guy but i can see already that he's completely wrapped around me. I want to be his friend and we've already talked about it.. but he keeps pushing it and calling me all the time. and his parents are always trying to talk to me and telling me how great a guy their son is.. makes me feel guilty. what do I do?
3 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I was the guy in pretty much the same situation a few years back. I would say the best thing you could do is just explain everything to the guy, at first he will probably be hurt but he will get over it and hopefully be your friend.
The girl I was into was my friend for a few years before we hooked up. We had a few really good nights and then she just stopped calling me, wouldn't return my calls, and was never home. She pretty much forced me to take the "hint." After a few months I heard from her friend that she moved about 40 miles away. There is really no worse thing you can do than force him to take the "hint". So just explain it and do what ever it takes to make him understand things are not going to work out. He will probably be hurt but I am sure he will appreciate the explanation and honesty. I know I would have but oh well.
Good luck
- 1 decade ago
Tell him you need your space and that you don't have the same feelings towards him as he does towards you. it just sucks to be him. don't wait to do this cause the longer you wait the tougher it is on you and him.
