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Do you think it would be weird to go out with a guy who is younger...?

I am 14 (just turned 14 a month after school started) and I met this guy a week before school started at a theme park 6 hours away from where I live. He lives in the same state as the theme park, but 2 hours away from it.

He is turning 13 this month.

I am 5'2 and 100 pounds. He is 5'6 and 99 pounds.

He lives 6 hours away from me, but is going to visit. Then we are going to go back to the theme park over summer and meet him again there.

We talk on the phone EVERY day. Along with my sister, who is 2 years younger than me (12). That means he'll be 13, Im 14, my sister is 12. We all talk on the phone at the same time (my sister picks up another phone in the house)

Is that weird? Should I go out with him? We both like each other..

Update:

His friend, who likes my sister and took him to the theme park with his other friend that was a girl, emailed my sister saying he liked me (she knew I liked him) and then one day he called us (his friend on the phone & my sister) saying he liked me and if I liked him back. Besides, my sister has a bf and she says she doesnt like him and just likes him as a friend. And every now and then we talk about like why he likes me and stuff (my sister is always on the phone too). And how his friend likes my sister and he likes me. Also how they admitted they liked us when they were alone. He told my sister that his friend liked her, and thats how she found out.

Update 2:

I get nervous if I talk to him alone. Like I think I wont have anything to say.

Earlier he called and my sister was on a walk with my dogs. I didnt answer the phone and ran to catch up with her (she was like..a 1/2 mile away) and when we got back, tried calling him, he didnt pick up the phone.

Update 3:

Also, hes a really good singer and he is on a basketball team.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    no its not weird my boyfreind is a year younger than me im 14 he's 13 i even dated a 12 year old when i was thirteen he was as tall as me and cute and you too sound like a match made in heaven have you kissed him yet email me i wanna know how it turns out its so exciting (i must sound phsyco) lol my adress is fiveonttwo@yahoo.com

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Wait, you and your sister both like him and he lives 6 hours away? Seriously....If you leave for the theme park on Saturday at 7AM, and he lives his house on Saturday at 9AM (cause he has to kick out the other girl b4 he leaves) Assume you drive with your mother at an average rate of speed of 57.5 miles per hour with 4 bathroom breaks along the way, 3 are 10 minutes, but the 4th is 20 (so you and your sister can get dolled up). Assume he leaves on a bike and travels at an average rate of speed of 12 miles per hour and pees while still peddling.

    With all of the above assumptions and numbers, what time would be a reasonable time for the 3 of you to meet at the ferris wheel?

    Source(s): this happened to me, i just want to see what time you think you will meet
  • 1 decade ago

    I don't understand why height and weight have anything to do with it. There's only one year's difference in your ages, but usually a girl of 14 is much more mature than a guy of 13. Just be careful; be friends. It's difficult at any age to sustain a long distace relationship, but at 14, keep it on a "good guy- friend" basis Your sister who's 12 should not be involved at all.

    By the way, he sounds really thin.

  • 1 decade ago

    NO, you are all too young. Wait a few years, shoot how are you going to go out anyway, he going to pick you up on the city bus? he cant drive, you cant drive, and i cant believe you parents are gonna drive either. relax and be freinds if you are still friends in a couple of years then you can start dating and it wont matter he is a couple months younger then you. wait until you are thinking about dating a man 10, 15, or 20 years younger then you before you think about if he is to young or not.

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  • 1 decade ago

    age is a number. I am much older than you and most of the men Ive known in my life have been younger than me.

    If you like this boy and you get on well there is no problem.

    You obviously have things in common and talking everyday on the phone you have plenty to say to each other.

    People mature at different rates and this boy may be 'older' than the lads your age in many ways.

    Enjoy his company and the friendship thats developing.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I don't think it is wierd. My boyfriend of 5 years is almost two years younger than me and now we are engaged. He was 13 and I was 15 when we started dating, and we didn't care about the age difference because we really liked each other. It really does not matter. I would go out with him and see what happens...you never know :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It would wind up being a long distance relationship, and i would be hard, but it sounds like you get along really well. GO FOR IT!! Hope everything turns out Great!

    O, and no it is not too big of an age difference.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    There is nothing wrong with dating a younger guy. When I was in high school I dated a guy who was 14 and I was 16. He was a freshman and I was a junior.

  • Cutie
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    It sounds like a good friend to the familiy to me. I don't know why you think, at 14, that you should be GOING OUT with him, unless you're just going out as a true friend. If you were my child, I wouldn't allow you to be GOING OUT by yourself with a boy because you don't want to put yourself in a sexual situation. If you're always with someone, those thoughts and opportunities won't be there until you're ready. And you are not ready at 14. Please think about getting through school before you mess up your whole life making a decision of GOING OUT with a boyfriend. God Bless.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    no. My wife is 6 months older then me. When she dated she tried to find and date older guys but somehow never did. ALL the guys she dated were younger. Well now where married and age is just a number

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