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seeking other perspectives on my situation... my ex is stubborn?

i've been dating a guy for almost 6 weeks i liked him a lot &he said he liked me but i thought we were free to see other people he hadn't asked me for any other kind of commitment. i went to vegas a couple weeks ago, ended up having a one night stand & my exboyfriend has been calling which i declined his offers cause the loser is married. but he's been this addiction &. i told him i met someone i really liked and us hooking up again was not going to happen. some mean things were said & he finally said he just gave up. I told the guy i was dating about me meeting a guy n vegas i didnt tell him all that happened. but i told him about the married ex how happy i was it was finally over. the guy i'm dating apparently took it as i've been seeing the married guy all along i haven't even been with him since august& doesnt want to see me anymore this i found out yesterday hes been avoiding my calls

Update:

i sent him a message apologizing because at first i had no idea why he wasn't talking to me i thought if anything he would've been mad about Vegas which i told him i got really drunk he's seen me really drunk & knows how i am. after i got back i had told him about my ex finally giving up. when i got his reply he told i broke what little piece of his heart he had left & that me talking to my ex was what hurt him the most the vegas situation he could've gotten over. i tried to explain that i haven't been seeing my ex at all but he was drinking & i dont know what is all going on in his brain. do i need to let him just sort it all out and figure it out, i told him he knew where i would be & had my number i dont want to push him too much but i dont want to just give up on it. he knows how i feel about him. i'm just confused. on it all.

Update 2:

well it was vegas and the PBR finals... i can't resist a good lookin cowboy especially if he's buyin me shots of tequila... in my defense the guy i've been dating we were just dating he had the chance before i left to tell me to behave and he was like just go have fun...

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    well you can either leave him a voice mail , email or write him a letter and explain that you hadnt been seeing the married guy while seeing him .. but if he finds out what happened in vegas i dont think he would be happy ... if he is unwilling to talk to you about it then move on ...

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