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Should I confront or get over it? Co-workers seem to leave me out of things.?
I have two co-workers, and we all started at the same time. Lately, they have began to car pool and each lunch together without me. We all used to each lunch together. Whenever I come in the room it seems as if the conversation almost immediately ends. Part of me is just thinking that I am jealous, but another part of me feels like they are excluding me for a reason. Should I just get over it and find other co-workers to associate myself with or should I confront them to see what's going on or if it's all in my head?
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- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I'd ask in a non-confrontational way if you did anything to offend them, because you feel like they are being distant/excluding you. Try not to accuse them of anything, just ask calmly.
If they say yes, resolve the issue of whatever they were offended by, if they say no, I'd just move on to other co- workers who are nicer to you.
If they don't have a reason for their behavior they probably just do not know how to interact with people, possibly have a petty resentment against you they are too afraid to bring up, or are simply rude. If they have a problem with you and you take the steps to resolve it and they don't do their part, there's nothing else you can do. Just make sure your side of the street is clean, and then keep walking...
