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Hi, Looks? is it very Important??

Many people mailed me after seeing my answers and few people were ready to date me after few mail interactions with them, but when i told them i am not good looking (but i do have a cheerful face), all those people who wanted to date , never bothered to reply.... Are looks are only thing important.. I didnt get disappointed.. iam just curiuos thats it... I believed bieng a Person with Good character and Positive attitude matters!!!!

Cheers

Update:

Hi God of thunder....

Listen aim not apologetic .. i am happy for who am i and i feel its great to be me and im basically a frank person and i like to be honest about everything... to be frank i have got a lot of female friends who are comfortable with me...

but then the majority goes for look thats is why iam curious...

Update 2:

Chanchal,,

iam the happy the way iam ... and iam not in sorrow iam always cheerful

Cheers

Update 3:

i have a got a lot of good friends..we have a dance troop and we have a cricket club... iam proud to have spo many friends..

Update 4:

Hi Adams,

I am really not worried about my looks..

iam just curious why people give so much importance to it...

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    looks are not everything!! i agree with your " a Person with Good character and Positive attitude matters" people shouldnt care how you look but rather what you personality is..

  • 1 decade ago

    You have to remember that there are a lot of shallow people in this world. And while you can see past the packaging there are still many that dont, men and women. Mostly I think it matters more to people when they are young (teens and 20's) and around 30 or so some start to realize that it looks arent really all that important.

    Anyone needs to think about this--Looks like everything else doesnt stand still in the face of time(unless you can afford a really good plastic surgeon)

    To answer your question, no looks are not everything.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    A Sad Story

    This is the world. I say if you are going to purchase something First you will be attracted by it's packing then it's own look & then it's quality.O.K

    This always happen in real life alsoSo Believe on god & proceed & be happy what God has made you

    Do not give place to sorrow in your life

    cheers

  • 1 decade ago

    Looks do play a role in the dating game. But all in all i fall for a guy who has a great personality, a great sense of humour and a guy that loves life.

    For me the spiritual connection with a guy is a whole lot more rewarding the the physical connection.

    Good luck :)

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  • 1 decade ago

    yes looks do matter at first glance, but no they're not everything. and if not looks then money lol, unfortunately, usually money first, i live in south florida and it blows me away at how many seriously mismatched couples i see, but anyhow, looks arent as important as maybe appearance, ugly is how the package is presented, if ur overweight, loose weight and exercise, if you have acne, go to a dermatologist, and if you just think your ugly still, then its probably just you. i dont know many people i would consider ugly or just that they need to fix their look. so fix your look prince, its all in ur head! if you have personality and a decent look then your golden my friend. and then chicks wonder y they end up with @$$holes when theres guys like you they could know

  • 1 decade ago

    well,its true looks matter for the first impression,but after getting to know the so called cute guy u realise that he is not so cute from the inside,i dated i guy ones who i never like b4 he was nice and friendly but i wouldnt hv tho he can be my bf so when we became friends i realised that he was so perfect than the guy he was trying to help me get back with,i ended up falling in love with him,we broke for other reason and not his looks,so for me looks dont really matter but the beautiful look of the inside.

  • Joe
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Looks are very important add to that Good character and Positive attitude

  • 1 decade ago

    at the end of the day, being good looking does help. But, there are beter things, being able to make a girl laugh, make her happy, make her smile and she wont be able to keep her eyes off you. if you feel good and happy you shine with confidence and that women find that extremely attractive

  • 1 decade ago

    its based on the person..

    if they like goodlooking people..

    then leave them alone..

    why do they pick the people they hang out with?i dont know either.

    BUt everybody is the same ...i think..

    "beauty is in the eye of the beholder.."

    haha..LOL!

  • 1 decade ago

    im with you, looks shouldn't have to matter, but for some reason that's all people seem to go on.....

    annoying really..... :P

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